Anonymous #1 10w

ive never gotten broken up with so by the time i break up with you ive already decided if rather be alone than have another day with you. i actually get significantly worse between relationships in terms of behavior

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Anonymous OP 10w

that’s interesting! do you think you’re picking partners that ur actually compatible with or do you kind of rush into relationships w ppl who ur kinda so-so about and that makes it easier to break up?

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Anonymous #1 10w

i genuinely do like the people i date! id like to think that for my part relationships we were compatible at the time but sometimes you just outgrow one another. ive never started a relationship with someone i was just Okay about but i have gotten into many situationships & talking stages with people im just "ok" with

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Anonymous OP 10w

do u find ppl mostly on apps? i feel like its very hard to find ppl who actually want a relationship these days

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Anonymous #1 10w

yes absolutely, if it wasnt a high school relationship it started on tinder or i got asked for my number/instagram and gave them a fake one/soft blocked them

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Anonymous OP 10w

wow u must have great luck then😭 or maybe im just really picky

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Anonymous #2 10w

i do have strong friend groups! i think i have a healthy balance, my friends want to hang out less (timezones, work, generally just being adults) so whenever they want to hang out im more inclined to hang out with them when prompted. on the other hand i live with my partner so he can definitely wait lol

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Anonymous #1 10w

in all honesty i think its just bc im solely into medium ugly people. like paul dano and jeremy allen white are the sexiest men on earth to me which makes it much easier to find someone im attracted to 😭

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Anonymous #3 10w

lets start a coalition

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Anonymous OP 10w

LMAO tbh that might be it 😭 i definitely pass up on a lot of guys im sure would be interested in a relationship or lovely people bc im attracted to guys who are very pretty which is 1) not that many and 2) tend to be the most noncommittal people ever

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Anonymous OP 10w

Omg I’m so down we do be misunderstood

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Anonymous OP 10w

Oo ok sounds good! I’m only 19 so I think I just happen to have a lot of friends who still get super obsessed with new men and forget their friends in the process

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