Anonymous #1 1w

i have low self control, we were cuddling and kissing and then touchy so i unfortunately said fuck it and told him just be careful. sleeping on it and waking up tho i am fully aware that was fucking insane

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Anonymous OP 1w

I’m not trying to knock you while you’re down but I really have a hard time conceptualizing how some ppl have raw sex knowing this 😭 I’m so paranoid about my own sexual health

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Anonymous #2 1w

every one is different. you’re probably just more cautious or like fully entirely think things thru regardless of what’s happening

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Anonymous OP 1w

I get I’m so confused what your thought process was like?

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Anonymous #2 1w

I think for me I’m worried about pregnancy, stds/stis, the persons testing status, and potentially not being able to get an abortion in a red state. I was wondering if it was a heat of the moment thing?

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Anonymous #2 1w

the thought process was fuck it. i was being held, caressed, kissed it just felt nice. not justifying it! very much a dumb bitch decision but i’ve known him for years so that def also eased some worries

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Anonymous OP 1w

I feel like even if you know someone for years that doesn’t erase the potential for pregnancy or contracting something, esp if you’re not using protection or birth control 😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

I promise I’m not trying to come at you I just see this situation happen a lot and I guess it’s hard for me to wrap my mind around it

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Anonymous #2 1w

no worries i understand

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Anonymous OP 1w

But at least you went to planned parenthood. That’s better than what’s most ppl would do

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Anonymous birthcontrolfairy 1w

i don’t think i have another choice it’s my body i have to be more responsible than them

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