Anonymous #2 22w

the reality is it’s a lot harder to accept yourself and live in a lesbian relationship than a straight one and many bi women will take the path of least resistance because they have the option to

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Anonymous #2 22w

you think queer people that are around cishet people all the time actively choose that?

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Anonymous OP 22w

Yeah like I didn’t chose that any more than cis people “choosing” to have an all straight friend group. It just happens that way esp depending on where you are

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Anonymous #4 22w

(Not saying all cis people have an all straight friend group obvs but many people just do bc it just happens that way)

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Anonymous #4 22w

Wait I meant straight cis idk why I just said cis

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Anonymous OP 22w

…yes, genuinely. there are so many ways to find community and unless you’re in a town pop 500 with no car, it’s on you for failing to find your people

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Anonymous #4 22w

my best advice is to find a way to meet more queer people! go to a gay bar or just a bar with a lot of gays. go to a concert and talk to people. join a softball league or some shit lol. even join one of those friend-making apps. there are so many ways to find other queer people and it is so beautiful to have that community even if it’s not thru your friend circle

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Anonymous #3 22w

date other bi women! 50% of the queer community is bi

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Anonymous #3 22w

and as a lesbian who has dated mostly bi women, we’re def out there. that’s just not a good reason to stop pursuing women!

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Anonymous #6 22w

will date who I want regardless of safety but a lot of people don’t have that privilege

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Anonymous #2 22w

I tend to gravitate towards my fellow queers in college, and when I graduate I imagine I’ll make some queer friends and meet their friends, and I’ll be fine from there

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Anonymous #6 22w

i honestly don’t even know any straight people who aren’t friends with at least one queer person. i hate when people act like it’s so hard to find other queer people. most of the time it’s because they’re choosing not to associate themselves, honestly

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Anonymous #2 22w

I have a lot of queer loose acquaintances but I have 4 close friends and none of them happen to be queer and I keep a tight circle, it’s not like I’ve never met any queer people

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Anonymous #2 22w

No literally like no hate to bi women but how come they never seem to want to date each other? I only ever see them talk about lesbians like you know you can just date another bi woman right … 😭

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Anonymous #7 22w

I’m friends with bi women irl and they’re fine with dating each other (and a couple date lesbians). humans are just wired to remember negative experiences, and we’re more likely to talk about our problems online. so it seems like that because of availability bias

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