Girl Talk on Yik Yak | do people ever consider that maybe bi women date more men because there are more straight men than sapphic women in most places

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Girl Talk 11h

do people ever consider that maybe bi women date more men because there are more straight men than sapphic women in most places

Anonymous 11h

Like it is not my fault my endeavors with women have been unsuccessful 😭

Anonymous 10h

Im bi and everytime I’ve tried dating lesbians they tell me they don’t date bi women 😭

Anonymous 9h

Bi woman here. I’ve dated men and women and I can honestly say that it’s just a matter of who I fall in love with. It’s really the personality for me

Anonymous 8h

also because it’s tangibly safer to date a man as a bi woman since you can hold hands in public without being openly harassed or stared at

Anonymous 11h

sure there’s some statistics to it, but if you’re friends with and around other queer women and in queer spaces that’s not really true. you’re not factoring in the fact that people are in the places they seek out

Anonymous

#2 11h

the reality is it’s a lot harder to accept yourself and live in a lesbian relationship than a straight one and many bi women will take the path of least resistance because they have the option to

Anonymous

#2 10h

you think queer people that are around cishet people all the time actively choose that?

Anonymous

OP 10h

Yeah like I didn’t chose that any more than cis people “choosing” to have an all straight friend group. It just happens that way esp depending on where you are

Anonymous

#4 10h

(Not saying all cis people have an all straight friend group obvs but many people just do bc it just happens that way)

Anonymous

#4 10h

Wait I meant straight cis idk why I just said cis

Anonymous

OP 9h

…yes, genuinely. there are so many ways to find community and unless you’re in a town pop 500 with no car, it’s on you for failing to find your people

Anonymous

#4 9h

my best advice is to find a way to meet more queer people! go to a gay bar or just a bar with a lot of gays. go to a concert and talk to people. join a softball league or some shit lol. even join one of those friend-making apps. there are so many ways to find other queer people and it is so beautiful to have that community even if it’s not thru your friend circle

Anonymous

#3 9h

date other bi women! 50% of the queer community is bi

Anonymous

#3 9h

and as a lesbian who has dated mostly bi women, we’re def out there. that’s just not a good reason to stop pursuing women!

Anonymous

#6 8h

will date who I want regardless of safety but a lot of people don’t have that privilege

Anonymous

#2 8h

I tend to gravitate towards my fellow queers in college, and when I graduate I imagine I’ll make some queer friends and meet their friends, and I’ll be fine from there

Anonymous

#6 7h

i honestly don’t even know any straight people who aren’t friends with at least one queer person. i hate when people act like it’s so hard to find other queer people. most of the time it’s because they’re choosing not to associate themselves, honestly

Anonymous

#2 5h

I have a lot of queer loose acquaintances but I have 4 close friends and none of them happen to be queer and I keep a tight circle, it’s not like I’ve never met any queer people