
He was so so good to me when he was fully in it. Made it clear when we broke up he isn’t looking for anything or anyone else. And that appears to be the case still. His fears and past experiences are shaping his behavior and Ik that but it doesn’t excuse it, and Ik letting go is good but idk if I can or how to when I care so much.
He broke up w me bc he deploys in a few months. We had been talking after our break up for a few weeks when he decided no contact was best moving forward hence the not reaching out, and he was the one to break that. He’s made it pretty clear he wants me but it is clear also that liking me isn’t enough to fix his avoidance so idk
waiting on a man to change is never a good plan. he's told u where he is and that he's emotionally incapable of giving what u need. accept that it was good when it was good, but that ultimately yall aren't looking for the same things anymore. take as much time to heal from this but stick w tht no contact. only u can take urself out of this situation