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My avoidant ex bf broke up with me 3mo ago, told me stop reaching out, 3w later asking for “ exclusive hooking up, no strings attached” babe?? you had that plus more when we were together. Let’s see what he comes back with next time😓🫩better be respect.
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Anonymous 1d

They gon say block him but im in the same situation and im not blocking him it is what it is

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Anonymous 1d

maam block him pls

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Anonymous 1d

but I care abt him sm :/

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Anonymous 1d

He was so so good to me when he was fully in it. Made it clear when we broke up he isn’t looking for anything or anyone else. And that appears to be the case still. His fears and past experiences are shaping his behavior and Ik that but it doesn’t excuse it, and Ik letting go is good but idk if I can or how to when I care so much.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

girl 1he broke up with u, 2he told u to stop reaching out, 3he disrespected u to a level of thinking ud fuck him with no strings attached. pls don't let him show and tell u for a FOURTH time that he does not like or want u PLS

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

He broke up w me bc he deploys in a few months. We had been talking after our break up for a few weeks when he decided no contact was best moving forward hence the not reaching out, and he was the one to break that. He’s made it pretty clear he wants me but it is clear also that liking me isn’t enough to fix his avoidance so idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

waiting on a man to change is never a good plan. he's told u where he is and that he's emotionally incapable of giving what u need. accept that it was good when it was good, but that ultimately yall aren't looking for the same things anymore. take as much time to heal from this but stick w tht no contact. only u can take urself out of this situation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Baby he has a bunker bunny he is already fucking

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