Anonymous #1 3w

I get hit on going to get coffee or walking to class and there’s no problem there. I just don’t get how getting hit on at a party makes it worse?

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Anonymous OP 3w

because it’s more unsafe and also lowkey i feel like you knowing you’re going to get hit on and choosing to go is kind of a red flag from his pov. like you can’t expect to be hit on when you go to class or something. but like you KNOW guys will be trying to get with you at a frat party. it’s a form of emotional cheating

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Anonymous #1 3w

So the fact that I’m cute makes it emotional cheating? If I go anywhere I get hit on so I expect to get hit on. Just because a guy hits on me doesn’t mean I’m entertaining it.

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emotional cheating is def a real thing but getting hit on is not emotional cheating😭

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Anonymous orangepopcornn 3w

idk i think going somewhere that you can EXPECT to get hit on to the extent that it would happen at a frat party is emotional cheating. like you can download a dating app and say people hit on you because you’re cute but you were the one that downloaded it. if you wanna go so bad then go but your bf isn’t crazy for having reservations about you going somewhere where men act like dogs when he isn’t there to keep you safe and show people you’re taken

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emotional cheating is definitely real…i know because i’ve emotionally cheated before tbh…

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Anonymous #1 3w

idk i don’t think it’s emotional cheating if she’s not emotionally entertaining it like she’s not responsible for other men hitting on her and that’s not a reason to not go out if she wants to idk

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Anonymous OP 2w

Girl..

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