So was my grandpa and my bf’s dad. Either you get my grandpa who was an absolute disaster or you get my bfs dad who’s a nut job and jumps off his balcony in his underwear. I also have an uncle who was in the navy, he cheated on his wife. My dad was in the army and even though he’s great, his friends, not so much. Air Force is really the only branch I have yet to hear a horror story.