Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
ok I am 22 never dated anyone, never done anything sexual, and I understand that’s not the norm, but my friends keep telling me I wouldn’t have to tell the guy any of this but that just feels weird to me, so thoughts? and if so when would I do it?
upvote 6 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

I’m the same way. You actually don’t need to tell them that most of the time. It actually can hurt you in some situations bc men pray/ search for “innocent” or “untouched girls”. Look for men who want something serious. Be careful and genuinely listen to their words bc a lot of men will lie to physically get with you. Only tell them/be physically with them once they’ve proven they are trustworthy and time has passed. If he is surface well or impatient, ditch him

upvote 14 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

If it gets to a point where yall are becoming serious and considering a relationship then you should tell them, the thing w no sex is honestly nothing to be ashamed of, you don’t have to say it right off the bat when you start talking but if you’re about to get down that’s when you can say so

upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

I was also the same way being late to sexual experience so one night I was impulsive and had a one night stand. Please do wait for a guy you really trust/love. My first time was actually so fucking bad like I would not wish that upon anyone I had beef with.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 1w

as someone who still has nevers, first of all dont even consider saying anything until it becomes relevant some of the time you wouldn’t like the guy enough to go that far regardless so yea like 2 said make sure they’re even worth your time before you volunteer that knowledge. don’t go around telling everyone that as a introductory fun fact

upvote 1 downvote