
I’m the same way. You actually don’t need to tell them that most of the time. It actually can hurt you in some situations bc men pray/ search for “innocent” or “untouched girls”. Look for men who want something serious. Be careful and genuinely listen to their words bc a lot of men will lie to physically get with you. Only tell them/be physically with them once they’ve proven they are trustworthy and time has passed. If he is surface well or impatient, ditch him
If it gets to a point where yall are becoming serious and considering a relationship then you should tell them, the thing w no sex is honestly nothing to be ashamed of, you don’t have to say it right off the bat when you start talking but if you’re about to get down that’s when you can say so
as someone who still has nevers, first of all dont even consider saying anything until it becomes relevant some of the time you wouldn’t like the guy enough to go that far regardless so yea like 2 said make sure they’re even worth your time before you volunteer that knowledge. don’t go around telling everyone that as a introductory fun fact