Update: was telling my friend how my therapist said to get a whistle for the next time guys are bothering us when we're out and she said "it's really not that deep" and wow do I feel stupid now.
I think part of the reason this is sticking with me so much is bc it was the first time I was hit on in public, and it just turned in harassment. But to hear someone say “it’s not that deep” just felt humiliating and makes me embarrassed to even be upset.
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Anonymous1d
But it is that deep. If you feel that way, it is THAT DEEP to YOU. Get a whistle, be a nuisance, be inconvenient. Anything to get these fucking vermin off your back
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Anonymous1d
No one ever has the right to tell you how to feel. Be sensitive! Youre hurting no one but people who get uncomfortable with others setting boundaries
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Anonymous1d
Idk why your friend doesnt appreciate that, like idk i wouldnt want men coming after me or my friends if we are trying to spend time together