Anonymous #1 5w

Girl no you aren’t. You’re a strong women like ?? Be proud of that!

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Anonymous #3 5w

an ik i am so wrong for this like this is so anti feminist but i literally love when guys expect less of me. i love being in class and not feeling bad when i have to lean over and ask the guy sitting next to me something. they eat it up. guys love being smarter and im happy to let them be smarter

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Anonymous #3 5w

Dude yes this is so wrong if you lmao. You don’t have to play dumb to be loved. If that’s the case the guy is a pos anyway. This is a crazy take girl.

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Anonymous #2 5w

Of *

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Anonymous #2 5w

no like it’s not that i want to be loved i just hate when people are disappointed in me. in situations where guys are smarter or stronger than me i dont feel like a disappointment because nobody expected me to be better anyway

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Anonymous #2 5w

i’m meeting expectations

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Anonymous #3 5w

Dude whatever 😭 still insane. I don’t like when people are disappointed in me either doesn’t mean I be little myself ?

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Anonymous #5 5w

That’s actually insane, how could a grown ass women say that at work 😭😭😭 so dumb

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Anonymous #4 5w

Read my comments. No you aren’t.

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Anonymous #2 5w

I’m just a girl

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Anonymous #4 5w

No just a dumbass it seems

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Anonymous #2 5w

I’m just a girl

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Anonymous #2 5w

yeah i was jk i don’t wanna be associated with #3

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Anonymous #2 5w

who are u to tell someone if they’re just a girl or not

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Anonymous #2 5w

Sometimes I wonder if the trepidation some ladies have about calling themselves a ‘woman’ instead of a ‘girl’ could have anything to do with the intersection between sexism, misogyny, and ageism? I have heard so many ladies say ‘oh, don’t call me a woman’ or ‘oh, don’t call me ma’am’ and it makes me sad that we both don’t have a solid equivalent to ‘guy’ and that society’s made ladies feel so badly and fearful about growing into a woman. I’m sorry if I’m being the person who’s “too woke”. 😭

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Anonymous #4 5w

You’re just stupid hope this helps!

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Anonymous #7 5w

Read the freaking post you understand what I mean lolll it’s be little- ing to women how do you all not realize that ??

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Anonymous #2 5w

I’m just a girl

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Anonymous #3 5w

your lack of self esteem would typically be funny if the way it was manifesting wasn’t so detrimental to other women

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Anonymous #3 5w

try to not be a people pleaser

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Anonymous #16 5w

There’s not. It’s always been a joke. Op is trying to start problems

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Anonymous #17 5w

sorrryyy long reply. but yeah i just will never be able to process all of these adult things. not saying that anyone can honestly like 100%. but mine is to like a very obviously debilitating degree where ik i can only do what i am able to but i am not gonna force myself sm like i used to either. ope sorry again i wrote a lot bc i literally just joked w my mom that i dont get all the little rules i have to follow as an adult and was like “im just a girl ugh let me live!!!”

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Anonymous #8 5w

Joke or not it’s belittling, and I stand by that. I’m not starting problems. You commenting trying to argue is starting problems. I’m simply stating my opinion on a public platform and people happen to agree with what I said for a number of reasons. It’s okay if you don’t see it my way.

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Anonymous OP 5w

who cares?????? you never heard of a self deprecating joke???? if you don’t wanna say that and feel like you’re belittling yourself then that’s okay!! but just like i joke abt my lack of proper brain freaking function i joke abt being just a girl in this miserable ass world that ppl like u contribute to. if ppl are gonna belittle every girl bc of an individual saying this joke then that’s on them for being even more stupid than i am to not realize one person doesn’t = everyone

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Anonymous #3 5w

who is out here expecting less of women??? name one thing society doesn't expect from women

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Anonymous OP 5w

not everything is so serious. yes we should strive towards society seeing women at an actual genuine equal level to men. but men of all ages joke abt being a guy for anything even dumb things too and that’s okay. ppl like you literally just make this world sm harder to live in tho bc it’s just added stress and expectations that ik many other ppl, guys and girl, also feel too. like why can’t anyone ever just freaking see that you can live one way and someone can live the other & it doesn’t have

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Anonymous OP 5w

have to be this big freaking debate and topic of oh you do things i don’t like and you should stop from all kinds of freaking ppl. ofc obviously there are certain very bad ways nobody should be okay with living. but god everyone everywhere wants ppl to conform in some way like just on basic simple shit that should just not fucking matter ahhhhggyweujekwfj

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Anonymous #17 5w

Girl please get a grip. You are blowing me up right now. If you don’t like my opinion you are more than welcome to get on with your day.

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Anonymous OP 5w

wtf did u have comments turned on for if ur gonna get mad at people commenting

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Anonymous #18 5w

I’m not mad at all but it’s not so serious that you need to go on a 10 paragraph rant AND another paragraph quoting me 😂

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Anonymous #3 5w

hahahahahah that’s actually funny to read. having expectations like such strict ones we do is honestly alr hard for everyone. but legitimately being a girl i KNOW has made my condition sm worse bc there’s specific and more strict ways for me to act to be accepted bc of literally just being a woman and ive had to literally almost kill myself in the process of just gaining even a bit more acceptance. like expectations aren’t just w things like idk jobs which im sure ur talking abt BUT EVERYRHING

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Anonymous OP 5w

I’m curious about all of your opinions on it and why you feel that way. I’m not judging anybody in the comments. Y’all are jumping down my throat over something so insanely silly.

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Anonymous OP 5w

thats literally just how the internet operates 💀🙏

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Anonymous #18 5w

Okay, well thanks for letting me know and stopping by!

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Anonymous OP 5w

i type in paragraphs w everything bc i have a diff way i communicate bc the way i do is thru this way of sharing the little details that help me process what im saying but also bc i can’t just say it in a few words bc i don’t know how to even phrase that. im sure ur frustrated w life’s expectations in ways too. im just fucking exhausted in ways where it’s impacted both physical and mental functions so i am angry w seeing how literally everyone even if ur #prowomen has this way for us to be 😀

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Anonymous OP 5w

again this is u just seeing it in a way where u don’t live so you see it as this bad thing. bc i get this comment abt my paragraphs a lot actually bc subconsciously you gotta ya know be chill and speak within a word count. but like i wanna genuinely show my side too but i just can’t do that like some can bc that is not how i am wired. it is not jumping down ur throat specifically. it’s both just the way i talk w anything + alr coming on here tired bc of everything i explained

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Anonymous #17 5w

I wanna clarify- I’m not judging you for speaking in paragraphs because I do it too. I’m really bad about over explaining. I just didn’t really feel like this post was that big of a deal. Or anything people would put nearly as much thought into as they have in the comments.

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Anonymous #5 5w

Oh my god that’s insane. I thought the “I’m just a girl” thing was a joke that ppl said when they accidentally spilled something on the counter not for a legit mistake at work 😭😭

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Anonymous #10 5w

I get that I think it’s silly, I just am saying doesn’t matter if they say I’m just a girl or I’m just a women it’s messed up either way.

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Anonymous #19 5w

THIS like if I said it it would be after hitting a curb or something

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Anonymous #10 5w

sowwy the new notifs make me come back and read new replies. honestly it may also be bc how quickly women do have to kinda grow up at least compared to men. so maybe it’s like they want to feel separated from this like strict and more serious term that being this adult woman sounds. which ofc is weird to be like no don’t say i’m a woman when they are? so def misogynistic but maybe in this way where it’s like not just abt aging but bc this im just a girl joke kinda made some women feel some

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Anonymous #10 5w

weight lifted off of them? but for some it that breath they could take made them hold on to it way too much where they are still having this thought of being a woman as a negative thing in a diff light ? like they get a taste of the silliness that we’re less expected to lean into that any mention of being a woman takes that away from them. ah idk but ur not too woke bc it is sad the way we are so frozen in our movements as women that no matter where u look there’s something new to “hate” abt it

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Anonymous OP 5w

it’s rlly not that much thought for me hahah but i understand. i was also just in a bad mood cuz world sucks 😔

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Anonymous #17 5w

This world has been shit for years. Going back to Jesus times😭😭😭😭😭. Something that ain’t ever gonna change. Just gotta make the most of what we get 😂. This being one of those things. I feel like I came off harsh and judgy. I’m not judging anybody at all. I just don’t agree with it and I don’t understand it. But to each their own. But some of these people were just flat rude for no reason 😭 like we aren’t allowed to all have a difference in opinion.

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Anonymous OP 5w

mmm i don’t lay down and die and just accept bad things. imma do what i can to get help ik i need for my conditions that will make my life 10000% better instead of just trying to deal w it like ppl expect u to do. but u are fine. exactly gotta do what we gotta do so i accept my disabilities and i just live life to be goofy and do what i love anyway

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