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Do guys realize if they don’t want to be alone or whatever with this whole male loneliness thing they can actually make themselves a better person that some girl would want to be with? Do they know this? It’s really not hard
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Anonymous 7w

Most guys don’t even realize that they can talk about their mental health with other guys instead of making their partners or imaginary future partners their therapists

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Anonymous 7w

Honestly, this just kinda pushes them further cause what lonely depressed person thrives off the words “just do better, it’s your own fault.” Sure, there’s definitely men that lack accountability and blame women. But some men have just been around the shittiest woman who lack empathy and integrity.

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Anonymous replying to -> slutty_anakin 7w

Yeah if a guy is so lonely he needs to stop blaming women and take a look at himself to see that he might be the problem. Like maybe he needs to realize he isn’t being respectful or maybe he needs to look at his hygiene. There is a guy on tik tok with a literal open wound on his head ranting about how women are awful and never give him a chance and even guys are like “dude see a doctor that might be why girls are avoiding you”

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Anonymous replying to -> slutty_anakin 7w

My brother texts me last whenever he is having a mental breakdown.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

A brother sister relationship is different than your brother and if he has a girlfriend

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

His ex broke up with him. What I am saying is instead of him texting some girl because he is upset about something a girl told him online he calls his friends. He calls me if he is upset and his friends do not pick up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Ah gotcha. Yeah I mean some guys get it and realize girls aren’t in their life for the sole purpose of comforting them so it’s good he goes to his friends first

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I tried to use Tinder as my brother to show him it is his personality that girls do not like. I found out my friend sent him a very inappropriate message. She must have not known that was my brother because he did not have any pics of himself on IG. I am not friends with her anymore. Lots of trolls on Tinder.

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