lol proving the point

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so you’re saying you need to worry about guys befriending women why? cause they’ll sexualize them and be a concern. right. so that’s the point. men and women can be friends platonically if men aren’t weird but even men know men are sexual most of the time do women can’t befriend them

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Anonymous #5 1d

it’s almost like you’re proving that point

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and who’s buying the onlyfans smart ass?? MEN

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it’s men paying millions for only fans!

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Man if I wanted to die I’d jump from my IQ to yours

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take advantage of weak men is crazy holy shit they are capitalizing off of dumbasses like you

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you’re literally not welcome here, gtfo

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I’m a man. You’re still a damn dumbass

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You have said literally nothing that is correct. The fact that you’re on this app means you’re in college… genuinely terrifying that there’s an institution that would accept you bro

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They know there’s a massive market for it. Capitalizing off of their bodies isn’t exactly a choice . Ppl who need money have been doing that for centuries. It doesn’t make it right . Their mental health suffers and they’re not happy. Those who do it and cope w it by playing into the role MEN WANT . It’s still about men . They succumb to the sexualization and to COPE , pretend it’s empowering

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Okay ya she could obviously . That’s what feminists like me believe . Men can’t watch certain vids and pictures of women don’t provide that . And it’ll help improve the dehumanization and objectification of women. BUT that doesn’t solve oversexualization . They used magazines, before that, girls showing their ankles..it doesn’t matter what girls do if guys live w a certain dehumanizing over-sexualizing mindset .

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It’s the entitlement to a women’s body . And the objectification of a women. Only fans didn’t cause that, it only exacerbated the issue . The problem was always there . Aka men who ONLY sexualize women and don’t see their personhood

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Anonymous #10 1d

Being attracted to a girl wearing revealing clothes is perfectly normal. That does not mean you have an overly-sexualized brain. It is perfectly normal for a man to be attractive to a women who's naked or wearing revealing clothes, its biology. What is not normal is women posting themselves naked, and wearing extremely immodest clothes in public. Modesty is importantly. (Also I am not saying that it's the woman's fault for dressing that way if she gets raped, it's 100% on the man.)

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Anonymous #4 1d

Okay but if u remember , we were talking about men talking to women in normal settings. Women talk to men who are in relationships and it doesn’t mean they’re trying to get w them.. men just assume that bc it’s projection . What I’ve noticed is they can’t be normal ab women anymore . It’s an overwhelming amount of sexualization no matter what. Even if she’s dressed modestly . They sexualize that too. It’s a mental illness

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OH MY GOD CAN YOU GET OUT OF HERE ALREADY

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Ur very combative and it’s not cool. u keep insulting the ppl ur commenting w . It’s ok to disagree.

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and u keep mentioning sexualization and men biologically wired for that. Fine but what were all talking about how men OVER sexualize women (like ur doing) to the degree that they can’t even have a causal non platonic conversation/relationship w out their being undertones or the assumption that something sexual will happen. This is unethical and UNNATURAL.

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you know I wasn’t the one saying shit, just that you aren’t welcome here, get it together douche

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Anonymous #10 1d

Sorry I meant platonic *

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Anonymous #10 1d

Bro stop acting like women don't like sex too 😂 It's biology for both men and women to be attracted to each other. Women fien over guys too

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Anonymous #9 1d

Ok? Who tf do you think you are 😂 talm bout some "you don't belong here"

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Anonymous #4 1d

What’s your point?

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Anonymous #4 1d

UR A MAN ur not supposed to be on girl talk but for some reason , u can’t respect that

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Anonymous #19 1d

BRO LET IT GO. U DONT belong here bc this is girl talk and ur a man. And yes ur right, women do like sex but both men and women shouldn't OVERSEXUALIZE. That's when we fall into dehumanizing objectification territory and society cant survive like that . Look at men’s SA /murder stats against women How about how men act when a man gets SA'd. They over sexualize women and assume it wasn't assault cuz the man must have liked it. men don't look past a women's boobs to see her heart that's dangero

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Anonymous trippnsac 1d

Asexual men exist. Gay men exist. Men who do not see every relationship with women as sexual/romantic exist. If you want to remind everyone that “not all men” sexualize every woman, you can’t assume that every M/F friendship is secretly non-platonic, and therefore automatically have a problem with your GF having male friends.

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Anonymous #4 1d

Hey so you know what consent is right? Some women consent to being sexualized in specific scenarios. Some men (“not all men”) see some women who’ve consented to being sexualized, & assume therefore, all women are/want to be sexualized by men. If you’re the type to say not all men, but assume M/F friendships are non-platonic for the above reasons, youre the type of man women complain about.

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Anonymous #23 1d

Ew

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Then get off the Girl Talk page you fuckin moron.

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Anonymous #23 1d

Yall fr need to hang around better men. You’re projecting onto others & it gets worsened/reinforced by the algorithmic echo chambers.

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Anonymous #23 1d

Also gtfo of the girl talk page.

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U deleted ur comment to change the narrative and act innocent . I’m crying . u kept calling ppl idiots and cursing u keep missing the point no matter how much we explain. we’re taking about CONSENT and OVER sexualization . U just don’t get it. Maybe the call is coming from inside the house and u need to examine ur beliefs .

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Anonymous #19 1d

Why would someone wanna ragebait themselves if they feel like this I’m crying 😭

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Anonymous #19 1d

promise you every man is like this. why do you think every good and kind father is worried of who their daughter dates? i am friends with more women then men because i am a good person and i make women feel safe around me. i still have thoughts that i push away. it’s biological. sorry.

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Anonymous #23 1d

having sexual thoughts are biological ,fine. But over-sexualization is cultural . And acting on that is a choice . And if u have too many sexual thoughts, that’s a personal issue to fix . Bc that is actually not normal. Examine why this is happening men are socialized to think ab sex too much and this objectifies women and this dehumanization of women is perpetuated by other men and puts women into genuine danger .

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Anonymous #10 1d

The first time I learned how often men think sexually compared to women I was absolutely horrified ngl

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Anonymous #28 1d

Then why do men keep persisting it’s not “all men” and that they should have a chance and they keep crying ab the male loneliness epidemic but now we’re being shamed for trying to still trust men ? Women will always be the bad guy bc men refuse to take responsibility

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Anonymous #23 1d

You cannot make a promise about the inner thoughts of half the planet, kid. And even if it’s most men, the problem isn’t sexual urges/attraction, it’s the culturally instilled incentive for men to project their urges onto others—Men & women alike.

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Anonymous #10 1d

men just can’t stand the idea that some spaces aren’t for them and don’t have the capacity to understand why. you wouldn’t believe the number of men you’ll find in the lesbian groups on here, it’s actually disgusting

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Anonymous #30 1d

Fuckin idiot

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Anonymous #30 1d

R u slow?

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Anonymous #30 1d

another idiot ladies and gentlemen (even though they shouldn’t even be in here)

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Anonymous #30 1d

Shit I guess I’m a dude now huh

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Anonymous #23 1d

Oh so no. If you have “horrible thoughts” you need to seek help. If your friends have “horrible thoughts” they need to seek help. Thoughts about sexually assaulting someone is not normal. It’s not a gendered thing, it’s a normal vs psychopath thing.

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Anonymous #31 1d

Horrible thoughts are “once you see one woman naked you want to see them all naked”

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why are u in a girls chat room🫩🫩

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Anonymous #31 1d

“Completely changing the completely” such a way with words. I’m assuming you meant “context” otherwise I have to ask if you smell burn toast

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Anonymous #31 1d

i don’t have thoughts about sexually assaulting people. but if a women wears something low cut i notice it bounce and jiggle and i enjoy it. and ill imagine seeing them

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Anonymous #23 1d

That’s not normal. Seek help you fucking pervert

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Anonymous #23 1d

“and i’ll imagine seeing them” yo get some fucking help

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Anonymous trippnsac 1d

as someone whose seen women naked before, that’s actually not normal at all. you should seek mental health counseling

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Anonymous #31 1d

it’s absolutely normal. inject testosterone into your body and see how you think. it’s literally just biology. you won’t ever understand unless you’re a man.

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Anonymous #23 1d

but i thought women were the ones controlled by their hormones… and men were the logical, rational ones…?

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Anonymous #18 1d

what are you saying everyone is controlled by their hormones. your brain chemistry dictates how you act in every single scenerio

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Anonymous #23 1d

You’re not alone

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Anonymous #1 1d

Thank you for this😭

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Anonymous #18 1d

Okay, some men do just like to see other men naked

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Anonymous trippnsac 1d

sure yea, men and women are both nice to look at given the right context. but having any sort of house training tells you to control yourself in public. only weirdos who should be on lists can’t control their behavior around women.

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Anonymous #18 1d

Read Intercourse by Andrea Dworkin for the opposite feminist view.

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Anonymous #32 1d

that last line is not an own. you do not need a vagina to understand how women may carry with them some suspicion toward their potential sexual partners. use ur brain, bro.

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Anonymous trippnsac 1d

Waiting until marriage exists. More men are virgins than women.

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Anonymous #43 23h

Oh, there’s nothing like emotional infidelity

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Anonymous trippnsac 23h

I’m not saying having the emotions in itself are the problem I’m saying emotions can lead to emotional decisions I’ve always thought “emotional cheating” is bs. As soon as you take attraction and combine it with feelings you can have messy results. Both parties need to be able to push that aside and maintain a friendship. No guy wants to meet her friends and run into Josh John Jacob jack just like a girl dosen’t want to meet Ryleigh Kyleigh and Kayleigh

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Anonymous #43 23h

Prime example of what I’m talking about. Your emotional connection can grow into attraction. Additionally, you can look outside your relationship for emotional satisfaction not found within.

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Anonymous trippnsac 23h

Wait so are you disagreeing or agreeing with me?

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Anonymous #43 23h

Most women find emotional infidelity more painful than physical. So yeah, I disagree with you.

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Anonymous trippnsac 23h

So what to you is emotional infidelity. I’ve never really been big on that cause to me sex should be the most emotional thing you could possibly do with another person. Personally I’d rather a girl crying to a guy friend or vice versa rather than getting a she’s busy bro text

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Anonymous #43 23h

Alright, definitely sound like a dude. Emotional infidelity is going to that opposite sex person and crying on their shoulder. It’s painful to hear that a man needs another woman in his life to feel emotionally supported.

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Anonymous trippnsac 23h

I am a dude. I was confused as fuck when “for the girls” popped up on my yik yak lmao. I’m just here trynna learn. I guess it is different for women not wanting your boyfriend crying to another woman especially because for most men they’ve only really cried infront of a select number of women so I can see it being offensive that you’re choosing another no family member over you

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Anonymous #43 23h

I like how we’re having these great conversations and we’re stuck at the bottom of this feed. The hell is wrong with these people?

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Anonymous trippnsac 23h

Fr fuck em were better than them

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Anonymous #45 22h

I wanna be your friend girl 🥺😩

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Anonymous #45 22h

Same

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Anonymous #19 22h

No😘

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Anonymous #23 22h

bro genuinely go fuck yourself. I am trying my best not to comment on this thread as a dude, but holy fucking shit NO. dms off, this isn’t pick-me bullshit. NO. You are a freak. Stop telling yourself this is normal and see somebody. If you tell your future sons that this is normal, holy shit. I promise you every man is not like this. hearing you say “women feel safe around me…” makes me terrified for the women in your life. It is not biological. There is hope for you.

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Anonymous #21 22h

No literally 😭

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Anonymous #41 21h

“That last line is not an own” the fuck does this even mean? My argument is that you can’t blame somebody when they finally adopt a mindset you usher them to have

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Anonymous #47 21h

I’ve been there & did not end up good lol BUT she’s her own person so either way saying something or not they know what they’re doing

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Anonymous #44 21h

No one mentioned rape. Women saying “all men” we mean all men are supporting or participating in misogynistic, oppressive ideals. It doesn’t mean rape you strung that together

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Anonymous #23 20h

I am a biologist. Firstly, women have testosterone in our bodies and secondly, it’s not normal to think of having sex with someone for having breasts. It’s a taught social trait, don’t fucking tell me that your social cues are biological. You have no fucking clue what you are talking about you perv

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Anonymous trippnsac 20h

You’re a porn addict

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Anonymous #23 20h

I’m a man and only fucking creeps think like u bro

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Anonymous #20 20h

i’m so sorry. you are so loved 💕💕. my dms are open if u need to talk!

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Anonymous #34 13h

I mean single now but I can usually gage the vibe of a guy my gf would be making friends with, and while I was often sussed out I thought a few were decent. The ones I thought were decent were also trying to hit though 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #31 11h

says they are a biologist and then says “women have testosterone so clearly they think like men!” come on. clearly you’re a women saying this because if you were a man you’d understand what i’m saying

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Anonymous #51 11h

There’s a difference between raping someone and not wanting your gf to be friends with someone who is trying to get with her. Do you not see the difference?

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Anonymous #23 10h

Biologically there in no hormone to make you sexualize someone and think about having sex with them for existing. That is a taught trait. This is biology 101, I’m also debunking your claim because if you say testosterone does that, then women on their period should be acting like you, but we don’t, because we’re not fucking psychopaths. But great misogyny at the end after claiming you’re not being a misogynist bastard you proved yourself wrong

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Anonymous #51 10h

Funny how you assumed rape when that wasn’t brought up at all. Is that the first thing you think of when you hear a man say “that’s how all men think”

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Anonymous #31 10h

No sorry my feed has been full of the cornel crap so that was js on my mind, my apologies. Not all men think or do the same, but all men are wired the same way to want females. Not all men are disgustingly and vile but all men have the capacity so that’s not a chance a protector would want to take

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Anonymous #38 10h

“Wired the same way to want females” so um no. That’s not a thing. You are wired to want females the way females are wired to want males. You are confusing the societal issues with biological fact. If you are really saying it’s a biological trait to be a rapist, you should commit yourself into a psych ward, or 6 ft under

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Anonymous #31 10h

No I kinda assumed it was about the Cornell situation with everything going on on my feed, but I see what you mean

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Anonymous #44 10h

Your assumptions still were men think about rape and that’s what they mean when they say “I know how men think”. Glad you’re acknowledging it but wow

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Anonymous #31 10h

I said that all men are wired the same way to want females I never said that they’re all wired to want rape chill. All men have the capacity to rape somebody mentally and physically that doesn’t mean that they’re going to.

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Anonymous #31 10h

There’s nothing being confused here men want women, women want men, both men and women have the capacity to do vile things, it doesn’t mean that they’re going to. It means they can.

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Anonymous #38 10h

“I know how all men think” if you say this and go “well not all men” do you not see the problem that you just said???? The reason it’s all men is because ALL men hold up this systemic problem and ALL men are capable. Yet women are still bashed and literally assaulted for saying that all men are capable so it is all men.

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Anonymous #38 10h

So it’s all men.

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Anonymous #31 10h

The same could go for women. All women can rape a child so all women are rapist. Now how about all women are like Lindsey Clancy, and will strangle their children you can’t make a broad claim based off of one incident not all men are rapist same as how all mothers don’t kill their children, but they all could. You can’t make a broad generalization off of one thing

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Anonymous #52 10h

That’s exactly the problem is because everyone forgets about the rest of the quote to fit their manhater narrative

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Anonymous #38 10h

Every five days a man kills his entire family but you’re not talking about that. It’s all men until the statistics lower. Over 90% of murders and rapists are men. It’s all men until that settles to 50:50.

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Anonymous #31 10h

… you do understand how stats work right. Just because it’s 90% men doesn’t mean it is 90% of all men. 90% of 100 is not 90% of 4 billion. It’s not that hard.

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Anonymous #52 9h

I love someone who can use their brain. 🫶

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Anonymous #38 9h

I know how stats work. But it still means that men are the problem. It’s all men till the stat is lowered. Can you read?

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Anonymous #38 9h

God forbid women are cautious around all men because 1 in every 4 women are assaulted and over 90% of perpetrators are men. If I gave you a 2 bucket of snakes and one bucket had venomous snakes would you shove your hands in both? Clearly one is fucking safe. Why don’t you know better? It’s not all snakes you dumb bitch

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Anonymous #31 9h

It’s every man in the world is a rapist and murder? Every single one of them? Or in that category 90% of the charged parties are men. How many times are men raped but too ashamed to say something about it. Just because 90% of murderers and rapist are men does not mean that every man is a rapist and a murderer.

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Anonymous #38 9h

It’s all men because we can’t differentiate the two.

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Anonymous #53 9h

It’s just called being protective I’m glad somebody understands it and doesn’t call it toxic and controlling 😂

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Anonymous #31 9h

Then why would you say that it’s all snakes even if it’s not all snakes some snakes are venomous some snakes aren’t it’s your choice whether you put your hand in the bucket, it’s also your choice, whether you lie and say all of the snakes are venomous. You’re making a broad claim grouping everyone in with a small selection of vile people.

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Anonymous #31 9h

So back to the original saying, it’s not all men, but it’s always a man, now that sounds a bit closer to what you’re getting at. You can’t differentiate between the men, but it’s not every man but you know it’s going to be a man. That’s why the saying is what it is. You can’t just say every man is a horrible person js because one man is.

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Anonymous #31 8h

about you point of 90% of SA is men. using the snake anology imagine you put a bunch of snakes in a bucket and out of all of them 5% are venomous . 90% of the time you put your hand in the 5% of the snakes bite you. does that mean snakes will bite you 90% of the time or does it only apply to 5% of the snakes? you have to account for repeat offenders. the kind of people who will do that are the people who will do it again. that doesn’t mean all snakes are bad. it means you should demonize venom

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Anonymous #23 7h

So are you agreeing with me or disagreeing I’m confused

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Anonymous #23 7h

Okay so shove your hand into a bucket with venomous and non venomous snakes. Do it. Yeah the venomous snakes will hospitalize you or kill you but you’re just being a dramatic bitch. Yeah you can’t tell which snake is which but you should still shove your hand into the bucket with venomous snakes.

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Anonymous #23 7h

If you cannot differentiate the good and the bad, then you are cautious of all of them. It’s all men.

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Anonymous #31 7h

So you’re cautious of all men but all men aren’t the problem

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Anonymous #38 6h

hold on take a step back. clearly i struck a nerve. im have been SA’d before by a woman. she looked like every other woman. should i say “not all women but most” or “it’s all women” or should i recognize that a small percentage of women do that. same with men. most men that SA are repeat offenders. you can’t tell the difference and i understand that fear. but not every mosquito has malaria.

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Anonymous #38 6h

If you have a problem w the “all men” phrase (which isn’t even literal when used within this context), or generalizations made about men on principle, you don’t get to say dumb shit like “all men want females the same way.” Are they or are they not a monolith? Pick a goddamn lane.

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Anonymous #58 4h

would you rather be sorry? and end up raped and/or dead

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Anonymous #5 1h

Low iq point again the amount of fear mongering that goes into the news is astounding 😂

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