Anonymous #1 45w

like it’s great that he’s getting Therapy now, but I know that Therapy is just solving his issues with himself and I don’t think he’s going to really bring our relationship into it I don’t want it to be my responsibility to fix us when I’m the one that had to leave

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Anonymous #1 45w

I think my dad couldnt hand therapy cause he can’t face his own wrong doings. Also like um… I was the fucking child. Until 18 and dealing with own very real and traumatic problems with little support.

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Anonymous slutty_anakin 45w

THANK YOU

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Anonymous _salami_ 45w

“the phone works two ways” “you can start the conversations too” PLEASE I hate when people always try to make themselves the victim

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Anonymous slutty_anakin 45w

Either denial or turning it on how he has issues or making him the victim with how "he's the problem" or something. Like yeah dad but that doesn't acknowledge how you affected ME! ME YOUR DAUGHTER YOU CLAIM TO LOVE!

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Anonymous #3 45w

How you should repair the relationship? Like he’s not a whole ass man? Like let’s be honest, you’re the one who deserves a fucking apology or an admission that what he did was wrong. But no apparently

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Anonymous _salami_ 45w

omg literally!!! he’s too prideful/stubborn to admit that he has done a lot of things wrong and my mom knows it and ig she’s tired of being in the middle of a strained relationship but it annoys tf out of me that she keeps telling me to be the “bigger person” and just ignore everything he’s done. and the worst part is i have tried to put it all behind me but he just keeps doing the same shit and i’ve had it now lol

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Anonymous #3 45w

like i love my mom so much and ik she sees my side but it pisses me off that she keeps telling me to be the one to do smth about the problem bc she knows i’m ironically the only one who can put my own pride aside and admit to my wrongdoing. like why are we treating my dad like an unstable child

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Anonymous #3 45w

TRYING TO PUT IT BEHIND YOU BUT HE DOES THE SAME SHIT IS TOO RELATABLE. Tell your mom the relationship will change when his grown actions do.

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Anonymous _salami_ 45w

FR I’M SICK AND TIRED OF BEING THE ONE TO EXTEND AN OLIVE BRANCH EVERY TIME DESPITE NEVER RECEIVING A SINGLE ADMISSION OF GUILT OR APOLOGY

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Anonymous #3 45w

That is not your responsibility and I am giving you all the permission to feel that way

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Anonymous #3 45w

Fixing issues with your dad at a certain point= him fixing his issues

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Anonymous _salami_ 45w

ugh thank you it’s so nice that someone understands and i hope your dad gets his shit together too

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Anonymous #3 45w

I given up on hope.

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