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Strange take: My ex relationship was the worst because we never disagreed. We always saw eye to eye and i thought it was perfect Now, in my current two year relationship, my boyfriend and I argue here and there and have differing views and it’s perfect
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Anonymous 10w

I get it. I’d rather have somebody I can have a respectful debate about with different views than someone who just agrees with me (or I just agree with them)

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Anonymous 10w

That led to the downfall of my previous relationship too! My ex never wanted to disagree to avoid upsetting me. He would always give in at some point, not that I wanted him to, i just wanted him to see my POV and he would just accept it (but deep down he was very upset). He eventually exploded one day ofc

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Anonymous 10w

I’m trying so hard to understand this at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

If everything’s always 100% perfect, how can one be mostly sure how a situation in future years where you two disagree would go?

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Anonymous replying to -> slutty_anakin 10w

Well it wouldn’t if we agreed on everything lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Its usually a facade... More than likely one is bottling up their feelings to keep the other person happy. If two people truly do agree on EVERYTHING, then thats one in a billion

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