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I just want my boyfriend to do boyfriend things 😔 it’s been 7 months and we never go out on dates. I hate planning everything I want to go to pumpkin patches on a nice fall day and get boo baskets yk?
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Anonymous 2w

have you told him this? you shouldn’t have to, but you should tell him if you want him to change

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Anonymous 2w

I have but he just says he’s not a good planner and I need to give him some direction, but then I mentioned something and then he just forget about it. Then he got mad at me for bringing it up.

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Anonymous 2w

Try 3 years he says everything is too expensive and he has too much schoolwork 🫩

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Anonymous 2w

My bf is just not a planner. I bring things like this up and he's always down. We end up going on dates. I sometimes wish it was his idea but guys can love you and be bad planners.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

he doesn’t sound like a good boyfriend. are you sure this is what you want ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

There’s so many other things that happened that make me contemplate. I’m breaking up with him. Just because of the way he treats me but I just love him so much that I can’t do it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Sure you love him but if you love yourself you’ll find someone who does these things without you asking and goes above and beyond on his own accord

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