Anonymous #1 6w

It’s only been 3 weeks and I do indeed have way too much time to obsess over it

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Anonymous OP 6w

oh yeah girl ur in the earlyyy stages 😭😭 so sorry but it does get better

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Anonymous #1 6w

It needs to get better asap lmao

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Anonymous OP 6w

girl it took me 9 months buttt it did last for a year so

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Anonymous #1 6w

I knew him for almost 3 years and we lived together for a year until march, it’s rough as hell

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Anonymous OP 6w

damn girl that sucks. were you together? i was in a situationship so it made it much harder to get over. you might have more luck if it was official which it sounds like it was

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Anonymous #1 6w

No, never together. he was my fwb and knew I was looking for a roommate so offered to rent my extra room for a month or two (but it ended up being a whole year lmao). We were still having sex in the beginning but it stopped after 4 months bc he just randomly stopped wanting to have sex and since then had been pretty platonic. But we were still pretty close and I confided in him with everything. Then he moved out and kinda sorta ghosted me when I was at an extremely low place so here we are lmao

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Anonymous OP 6w

ohhh wow that’s fucking terrible 😭😭😭 did you want a relationship with him?

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Anonymous #1 6w

No, I’ve never wanted a relationship with him bc I’m really picky when it comes to actual relationships. He didn’t share a lot of my values and that’s most important to me. But I have a history of getting really attached to situationships/fwbs, he isn’t the first. My therapist just said she thinks I might have bpd literally just a couple weeks ago, after I told I her I ended it with him so there’s that too lmao

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Anonymous OP 6w

oh you’re the one that ended it as well? i think with those circumstances it might take less time than 9 months, fingers crossed!!

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Anonymous #1 6w

Yes I ended it. I had to after i processed how he violated a lot of my sexual boundaries in the beginning of our relationship. It was like I was only able to process it after he moved out. That was a huge contribution to the low place I was in when he went practically ghost But crossing fingers!! Bc the last thing he told me before he left was “think on it for a few weeks. if you change your mind, I don’t plan on changing my number so…” and that’s what keeps replaying in my mind 🙄

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