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Am I the asshole, for not giving my maid of honor (who dropped the wedding) an invite to the wedding? After she told me she won’t be apart of my wedding I have yet to hear from her. I even apologized even though she was the one who blew up on me.
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Anonymous 13w

I'm confused on the chronological order of events

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Anonymous 13w

Yes. Costs nothing to extend the invitation and let her decide to come or not. Good opportunity to take the high road here but you sunk to her level.

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Anonymous 13w

so did she drop because you didn’t send her an invite?

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Anonymous 13w

i’m confused

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Anonymous 13w

What do you mean ht “blew up on” you? What did she do?

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Anonymous 13w

i’m confused

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Anonymous replying to -> babybackribs 13w

She dropped the wedding because she didn’t want to plan my bridal shower at my moms house

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I mean, if she was just too busy or not mentally prepared to be a maid of honor that’s pretty understandable. Were you not inviting her only because she didn’t want to be maid of honor?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

Okay, thank you. I’ve been telling everyone that I will send her an invite and if she doesn’t go then I can’t do anything about that. But everyone has been in my ear telling me not to invite her

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

She’s been my maid of honor but she dropped the wedding last week because she didn’t want to do my bridal shower at my mom’s house. I’m about to send my invites this week and I just want to know if I should invite her

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Anonymous replying to -> slutty_anakin 13w

She fully dropped it like even said she wishes me and my fiance a great live almost initiating that she isn’t going to the wedding. I still love her and I want her to be there but idk if she will want to go

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

What was the reason for the fallout? Her reaction to having the bridal shower at your moms seems way out of proportion for something like that. There was nothing else that caused her to crash out?

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