Anonymous #1 16h

What do you want her to do? Turn off her subconscious?

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Anonymous #2 16h

Dreams are things you think of most of the time

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Anonymous #1 16h

Yeah, mostly the brain compartmentalizing and storing information. You don’t get to choose what you dream about. That lack of agency makes it impossible for it to be cheating

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Anonymous #2 16h

Ok so she’s having thoughts of being with a woman and they’re occurring in her dreams… so is thinking about someone else while in a relationship NOT cheating or is it .. 🤔

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Anonymous #1 16h

i had a dream where i was dating wario (and i dont even play those games) what does that say about me

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Anonymous #4 16h

That you want to date wario 🥲

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Anonymous #1 16h

Thinking definitely isn’t cheating in a healthy relationship. Also, things don’t have to be consciously thought about to appear in dreams. I often have dreams that are near nonsense completely unrelated to what’s happening in my life. You really can’t extrapolate OP’s whole inner life from one yik yak post about a dream

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Anonymous #1 16h

For starters your comparison is invalid. This girl is having dreams of being with a woman.. she might not be straight

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Anonymous #2 16h

Thinking of cheating is cheating I said what I said

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Anonymous #1 16h

Yeah she could be bisexual with a boyfriend, whats important are the conscious choices she is making

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Anonymous #1 16h

she could also be bi but like that's besides that long that doesn't mean she's cheating

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Anonymous #3 16h

Ok

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Anonymous #3 16h

But let a guy say he’s thinking of another girl it’ll be cheating🤣

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Anonymous #1 16h

yeah we can tell you're a guy

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Anonymous #1 16h

i really dgaf cuz i don't entertain stupid men do

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Anonymous #3 16h

No I’m a girl actually

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Anonymous #1 16h

m mhm ok

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Anonymous #3 16h

Yea I can tell you’re a feminist🥲

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Anonymous #1 16h

You’re not???

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Anonymous #1 16h

are you claiming to be a woman and NOT a feminist? lol

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Anonymous #1 16h

Guess we’re doing thought crimes up in here Also- you don’t know what boundaries are set in her relationship. My bf and I will point out (usually fictional) people we find very attractive

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Anonymous #2 16h

i love 1984

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Anonymous #2 16h

genuinely like i don't feel like you should be so scared of your partner to bring stuff like this up. as long as you're not acting on it like.

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Anonymous #3 16h

Ok

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