ultimately they're gonna do what they want to do (as they should tbh) and the only solution for me is to remove myself from that person's life if it bothers me enough. if I'm not willing to leave, then it doesn't matter.

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biggest life lesson is that people more likely than not, do not change. so if you can't live with how someone is today, then there's no point in tying urself to them for 10 yrs

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