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Can you say no to kissing, like reject and kiss from someone and go on about the date or does it just kill the mood after that? Because honestly I’m so annoyed (not trying to sound pm) but whenever I go on a date. The guy is always trying to do something
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Anonymous 1w

I just completely avoid the kiss without outright rejecting it. Like not turning my head towards him when we are sitting close together, changing topics, pointing at something else or even moving his head to show him it, etc. and it works really well

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Anonymous 1w

Honestly on a first date it seems a bit much. Like we just met each other you’re allowed to say no

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Anonymous 1w

reject a*

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

However every once in a while they catch on and get direct enough to ask about it, that’s when I’ll explain. “I don’t kiss on first dates” is a totally valid response to him asking

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

It’s more redirection rather than rejection and it tends to smooth over well

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