
soften ur lips, kinda like ur gonna pucker up but stop right before ur all the way there. have a gap between ur lips (abt enough to fit ur finger in between horizontally) & then just sorta fake chew like dont let ur teeth hit together but do the motion, slowly. practice on ur finger (that will be the other persons lip) & eventually add some subtle tongue in there like slight licks & teases but thats basically it
pretty much the same thing. if ur talking abt hand positions or other stuff just follow ur partners lead & try things out as u go. u learn what each other likes as u do it more & practice. just dont stress urself out & get in ur head too much. do whatever feels natural, ive learned that in these situations ur body does its best when ur brain doesnt interfere