
yeah I totally understand, my bf has bpd too. I have ADHD and depression so I really feel for him but it’s such a shitty disorder for everyone involved. I have to let my feelings go a lot because it’s not worth it to argue with him when he can’t be reasonable. everything is blown out of proportion and yes, they ALWAYS need the last word, there is no winning no matter how right you are. it has been helpful to learn about why he acts the way he does but it sucks and it’s unfair