
it does not matter what he's done for you, i'm serious this is such toxic behavior and you need to leave. He could've given you the world, if you are miserable and his family doesn't accept you as one of their own you will never find your place and this will be the same situation in 10 years if you don't stand up and leave. He can cry all he wants but if he loved you he'd want you to be happy if that's with him or not, not try and convince you to stay just for his sake