i’m so scared of getting hurt again. this is the third day of my bpd spiral, and i feel like i’m losing my mind. i REALLY want it to work with this guy, but there are tiny things that remind me of my evil ex situationship, and i get paranoid.
I think the best thing you can do is communicate this to him unfortunately
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i’ve been trying to. he said he was trying to decide if he’s ready for a relationship or not yesterday, so i’ve been asking clarification questions to kinda reassure myself, and it helped until i realized that my ex situationship lied to me about the same sort of things.