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Ladies btw psychologically, women look for stability, status, connection on emotional levels. Men, with data from multiple studies and pilled efforts. Look for youthfulness. Attractive. Warmth and affection. Sexual tension. We are just better by nature
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Anonymous 9w

well a lot of this actually seems like nurture. men being the ones with more status and stability is a result of the patriarchy and capitalism, and it makes sense that we’d value those things when we were taught our whole lives to value them from a man. same with what men are taught to value about women, which is mainly appearance and youth

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Anonymous 9w

Men don’t have much of a biologically mandated commitment. So they can value short term things as indicators of good genes for their kids. Women are looking for security due to the vulnerability and commitment that having a child requires.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

definitely agree with nurture! another way you can look at this is that men naturally tend to be given status and stability by default, so they aren’t motivated to seek them out since it’s not usually a thing they have to earn. they can redirect their desires into more superficial things. i.e. their privilege allows them to be more picky

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