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I wanna start dating again but I’m so tired of being over sexualized. I’m just so sexually repulsed by men now
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Anonymous 16w

I’m sure you’ll be able to find someone! I did, he never sexualizes me and he even waited two years to date me. He understands my sexual trauma runs deep and that sometimes I need to take a big step back. He literally never initiates, which I’m actually happy about because it makes me feel like I have more control. He doesn’t get mad at me when I want to stop, either. He helps me through panic attacks and he’s been SO clear on getting consent and stuff. You’ll find someone, it might take a bit

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Anonymous 16w

Maybe play a game w yourself to weed out the ones who don’t take you seriously. Make a dating profile and be like “Let me make the first move. I like a long game.” And see which guys actually have a personality

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Anonymous 16w

SAME. I’m also asexual which just complicates everything. I gotta find someone else on the spectrum

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Idk why I just get approached by controlling men or men who love bomb or men who have personalities but just want sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

the asexuality spectrum not autism, tho it would be nice if they were also autistic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Well maybe there’s smth in you that hasn’t changed yet or you haven’t found your right niche

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