Anonymous #1 3w

like no i didn’t bring a change of clean home clothes to the hangout 🙄

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Anonymous OP 3w

That literally sounds like what someone with OCD would ask in my opinion I think you’re the bad friend because you haven’t talked to them about this and you’re sitting here bitching about them online instead of growing up and having a discussion with them

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Anonymous #2 3w

This situation didn’t happen. I’m just complaining because I’ve seen people online talking about not wearing outside clothes in bed.

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Anonymous #2 3w

Girl I think you need to take a break from the internet you seem to be projecting hard on OP here.

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Anonymous #5 3w

I think the bed part was brought up in the sense that the bed is usually where you sit in a dorm that has no where else to seat in it.

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Anonymous OP 3w

As someone with pretty bad contamination OCD I do completely understand why someone would be uncomfortable with someone not having the “right” clothes on to sit somewhere. But also because I am someone with contamination OCD like amethyst said I have plastic covers on my couches and chairs and I just don’t let people except for myself and my bf go into my bedroom. It’s entirely about communication and explaining what’s going on, like you have to actually talk to each other

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Anonymous #6 3w

I mean you don’t have to be friends with everyone and you’re allowed to have your boundaries. 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #7 3w

You shouldn’t have someone get mad at you because they didn’t explain their situation

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Anonymous #6 3w

I’m sorry I don’t want to have to police my body just because someone thinks my clothes are dirty

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

i guess, but your bed is where you sleep. even if theres nowhere else to sit idt its that weird to be picky about your bed.

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Anonymous #5 3w

I guess not, really depends on the bed set up (lofted or not, comforter or no comforter, etc)

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

You can also stop being so spoiled and recognize people have different house rules lmao

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Anonymous OP 3w

There are other solutions to this besides breaking off a friendship just cuz they have different house rules than you my god

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Anonymous #6 3w

This is all kinda a moot point considering OP has explicitly stated this is a hypothetical but I would look at 7’s comments about the situation.

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

There are way better things that would be worthy to break a friendship off for. Not some fucking house rules lmao. Just don’t go to their house

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Anonymous #6 3w

they wouldn’t wanna be friends with ME ik i can be a lil gross and i don’t need the judgment

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Anonymous #6 3w

Frankly, your feelings on the validity of OP’s reasoning doesn’t matter. If that’s the hill she wants to die on let her.

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

let me die on my dirty hilllllll 😝🥳

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Anonymous OP 3w

In other words, you’re white, you don’t got any Asian or black friends, and they don’t wanna be friends w you

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Anonymous #6 3w

Why are you bringing race into this??? Why are you arguing over a hypothetical in the first place???

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

Because cultures are different and have different values. So by saying you won’t be friends with people who don’t allow outside clothes on furniture, you’re actually saying you won’t be friends with x ethnicity

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Anonymous #6 3w

Why do you care so much what OP’s friendship preferences are? You don’t have her friend if you don’t like how she thinks

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Anonymous #9 3w

same 😭 couches are fair game for any kind of clothes, but i HAVE to change before getting in bed

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Anonymous #8 3w

YESSS finalllyyyyy someone who understands

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