Anonymous #1 3w

thats good! i just wish i didnt have to buy them myself and ask my partner every single time if its okay we use one

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Anonymous OP 3w

girl don’t ask if it’s “okay to use a condom”, tell them that they must wear a condom! make it extremely clear that it’s a boundary for u and don’t put it up as something that could be argued against

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This is who’s spreading stds btw…

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Anonymous #5 3w

is it lubricated enough? cuz i can understand if straight rubber doesn’t feel good but i wonder if lube would help

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Anonymous #9 3w

lube kind of helps but it still doesn't feel that good compared to raw :/ i wish stds weren't real ugh

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Anonymous #5 3w

girl i get u sex is lowk overrated anyway i just like the foreplay 😭

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Anonymous #5 3w

i have a similar problem, if i were you id relax, do lots of foreplay, maybe have him eat u out, try using lube and start on top, breath in and push when you put it in.

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Anonymous OP 3w

ive done all of these things but as soon as i feel it inside of me, i immediately dry up and feel extremely uncomfortable but if its raw i have absolutely no issues. sigh oh well

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i am against public shaming… unless you’re spreading sentiments that harm others. and this harms others. SHAME! SHAME! SHAME!

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Anonymous #5 3w

it’s not the condom. you either need additional foreplay to be more turned on to open up more or additional lube.

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Anonymous #11 3w

this is good advice and i agree, but i already do that. no matter how much foreplay or how relaxed and turned on i am, the instant i feel a condom i just dont feel good anymore. maybe its a sensory thing for me idk. happy for everyone out there who doesnt have this issue 😭😭💔

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right :( i hope nobody uses my comment to reinforce their own biases, i just wanted to see if any other ladies shared my experience 😭💔 i hear you tho! i'll be more mindful

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Anonymous #5 3w

Sorry that was for the person saying shame I just replied to the wrong comment😂😂

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Anonymous #5 3w

This may be something your should talk to your OB about at some point, it could be an allergic reaction to the condom or lube itself that you are using

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Anonymous #11 3w

All public shaming harms whoever you’re shaming so this makes no sense? Nice try tho I’d rather be safe and look down on people who don’t care!

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Anonymous #8 3w

Like genuinely a woman having a real physical reaction is a perfectly good reason to not side condoms and every person is different like I’ve definitely gone raw with a hookup but now that these pages are public with big engagement I still think it’s important advertise the importance of safe sex and safe boundaries that should be nonnegotiable EXCEPT FOR specific circumstances like yours!

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Anonymous #4 3w

you loser pussies need to get some before you start complaining about wanting to wear a condom you’re just mad you don’t get asked to wear one because nobody speaks to you🙄

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Anonymous #4 3w

and stop downvoting me

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Anonymous #4 3w

not u arguing with urself 😭

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enjoy being a herpes ridden parent 😘😘

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Anonymous #7 3w

jesus christ im glad u got out of that. its also the fact that most men dont even understand how plan b works. its not an abortion pill, its a mega dose of progesterone meaning it only delays ovulation so the sperm die before an egg is released. if you take it during ovulation its practically a tic tac.

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Anonymous #11 3w

you had me in the first half ngl 😭😭 but YES. THIS.

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Anonymous #12 3w

👏👏

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Anonymous #13 3w

ur too funny 😭😭 im glad u got out of it!! i got the arm implant for my ex because he wouldnt wear condoms and the little fucker still cheated.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Dude, men aren’t shit. I learned from that if a man doesn’t respect my autonomy I’m gonna just dump his ass. I hate that it took his stupid ass to officially learn that though

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Anonymous OP 3w

I thought I logged into my alts IJBOL😭😭😭

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Anonymous #4 3w

just saying bs

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Anonymous #3 3w

if you stay protected you don’t have to get protected but yall have first grade reading comprehension skills🫤

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Anonymous OP 3w

It’s definitely not an abortion pill, but technically it is abortive since it along with what you said it prevents a fertilized egg from attaching to the uterine wall. Just want to make sure ur fully informed on what you are ingesting!

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Anonymous #5 2w

U might have a mild latex allergy. Have u tried non-latex versions?

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Anonymous #5 2w

Girl same, and the lubed ones make me inflammed down there😅 but like the scare isn’t worth doing it raw

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Anonymous #17 2w

Im on depo shot so ig I dont really got to worry abt it🤷🏼‍♀️ you could always take plan B after too if your ever too late to pull out or sum yk

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Anonymous #6 2w

I refuse to take plan b or anything that could mess up my hormones. So it’s pretty much cycle tracking or a condom for me.

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Anonymous #4 2w

Who is this supposed to be @ bc *iiiiiii* don’t wear a condom. I have the cave not the cave monster. This reads like it’s @men but I think it getting dv for it seeming to be @women

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Anonymous #5 2w

I agree to talk to ur gyno, although I just went this past week and they said if more foreplay and lube didn’t work then they’d look into it more. Foreplay (him eating) has been working for us, I also have to say you should try different types of condoms bc I’m also sensitive and certain condoms/lubes seem to make me like sticky(??) and NOT lubed up. We like the skyn brand and the ribbed Trojan (yellow box) was the first one I found that didn’t make me weirdly dry and gross down there

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Anonymous #18 2w

The yellow Trojan ones were my go to until we started trying some other ones here and there. It definitely sucks to have trial and error during something like sex unfortunately but knowing what worked and what my body was adverse to def helped me at least improve things for myself in one small way. Bc the foreplay also would help if we were raw but the wrong kind of condom/lube was like a sponge reversing all the progress, and I just wasn’t ok with being raw (I’m a bc baby HAHA)

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Anonymous #16 2w

so real for this

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Anonymous #18 2w

it is at men. Why would anyone expect the one without a penis to wear the condom? I’ve genuinely never heard of that before.

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Anonymous #4 2w

there are female condoms but they are not as effective

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Anonymous #5 2w

have you talked to your gyno about it? i had a septate hymen that was making sex uncomfortable and the procedure to have it removed is super quick and easy.

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Anonymous #11 2w

there are also conditions like vaginismus… sorry i assumed if you were having issues like that you’d already talked to a medical professional when i should not have

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