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i know my bfs dad intentionally takes him out for 10-12 hrs on his day off and has him come over on his other day off and i want him to see his family but damn what about me because when he comes home from work it’s already 10 pm and he falls asleep.
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Anonymous 16w

do you live together?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

yeah and he always uses that against me but we have a roommate which is his friend bc our rent was going up. his friend also takes time from us too which i get they are gonna hang out but he genuinely connects with people more than me. he may be here physically but he’s on his phone around me or doesn’t talk to me much. you know what i mean? i feel lonely around him.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

and he’s an only child (he has a half brother but his half brother is an actual disappointment and not in a mean way but he’s a horrible person). i know his dad doesn’t like me it’s kinda obvious but i don’t have anything to prove it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

okay well that at least makes it easier to plan date nights in on days you have work. obviously it still sucks to not get any time together on days off, have you talked to him about it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

i don’t work right now because i’m in school and i have money saved for rent. he works 12-9 and is already out the door before the day starts since he leaves at 11 and wakes up at 9 to get ready. when he gets home he eats showers and wants to fall asleep. i did talk to him and it just feels like he isn’t listening.

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