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This guy and I have been on and off for two years, it’s his first serious relationship but not mine and he has come back every single time after leaving and worked through it only for something else to come up. (Pt. 1)
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Anonymous 3w

We broke up a few weeks back again and he’s already back calling and texting and trying to contact me to apologize and the issue is he seems genuine but we’ve come to the realization he may have some form of bpd or something causing these episodes bc he really doesn’t seem or feel like himself during them. Is it stupid if I give him a chance to get help/diagnosed and try things again with those resources? Should I just be moving on?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I think he, independently, needs to get the help he needs & you, independently, need to consider how you want to be treated or what you want to feel when you’re in a relationship with someone. it might just be the wrong time, and things don’t work out, that’s okay. or it could work out, but it would take time.

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