my sister has a multitude of undiagnosable illnesses that cause a quality of life most people couldn’t bare and we can barely afford care for her but she’s happy and loves her life, while we couldn’t imagine living without her. just because there’s a risk of something happening is no excuse to end the potential for life because the future is uncertain. i’m sorry you felt this was the only way out, but that was a lie
I have 30 dollars in my bank account and will be living in dorms for the rest of my time in college. I work three jobs that don’t give maternity leave and if I quit them I will never find a job. Having a child right now would be beyond cruel for both of us. Not to mention that I don’t have health insurance and can’t fucking afford to give birth!
what kind of question even is that? anyway, life is hard for everyone and we all experience some level of suffering in our lives. having a child is a big decision and responsibility, but choosing not to do so because the world is a rough place is an excuse. you handle hardship as it comes, not reject life altogether because it can be uncomfortable
i don’t want to comment any more on your personal situation, even if i disagree with your choice it’s clear it was a hard one to make and it left you in a bind. i’m sorry if my comment suggested otherwise, but all i really want is that you move on from this and heal from any pain or anguish it’s caused you. i pray that happens for you