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girls i need advice, i’ve been with my s/o for now over 4 years and am i crazy for starting to resent him? i feel that the longer we’ve been together, the lazier he’s been with the relationship.
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Anonymous 2d

talk about it

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Anonymous 2d

I’ve been with mine for 5 now, there are definitely cycles in my experience. But at least for us we always go back into a honeymoon phase after a deep talk or working through something we’ve been dealing with. However my partner pretty much consistently puts in a great deal of effort so yours needs to pull his weight to get out of that rut together

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

My best advice is to keep dating each other like how you did in the beginning, but again that’s probably going to mostly fall on him to make that change

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