Girl Talk on Yik Yak | need some tips….my bf and I have been together for year and 6m. We’ve not had sex but have done everything else. We are each others first everything but kiss. We’re both ready to have sex but everytime we try, it will not go in. (Continued)

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need some tips….my bf and I have been together for year and 6m. We’ve not had sex but have done everything else. We are each others first everything but kiss. We’re both ready to have sex but everytime we try, it will not go in. (Continued)

Anonymous 3w

if it's not hurting u ever then why isn't he just trying to push a little harder? is he not hard enough or is it just his fear of pushing it in too hard?

Anonymous 3w

we’ve used lube and condoms but nothing seems to work. I’ve never felt any pain from trying to have sex and never felt pain w anything else we’ve done when something is going in. To my experienced girlies, is this normal? He’s so attentive to not hurting me or anything so maybe he’s not pushing hard enough in bc he’s worried about pain? Idk I just think something is off about it and would really appreciate some guidance

Anonymous 3w

Thank you my ladies who responded🫶🏻

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OP 3w

if your hymen hasn't broken, this could be why, idk 😭

Anonymous

OP 3w

and he also might not be pushing hard enough. you do have to kinda "force" it, but it shouldn't hurt that much, especially if you're relaxed and have lube

Anonymous

#2 3w

I think he’s so worried about me being in pain. like I’ve always been the one to take lead and he’s been more nervous. He’s definitely hard tho

Anonymous

OP 3w

it's not gonna have zero pain and that's fine. as long as he takes it slow and u let him knw if he needs to stop then it should be fine. u just need to tell him that ull tell him if it hurts too much and he needs to stop, or guide him in yourself