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Girl Talk 16w
the way i see the most miserable and narcissistic comments when people are just trying to find some joy in this world where anything can happen is crazy. sometimes keeping shit to myself is better so others don’t ruin it atp. -a bubbly kind individual
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Anonymous 16w

Fair enough, I’ve been ruined by people to do the same so I kind just keep the old yapper shut and stick to myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Always up for a good yap , i just act accordingly to what others show me. But if they are receptive and understand they can’t control things out of their control than I will indulge

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

That’s fair enough, I do the same thing. I love a good yap session, but I’m also not gonna force myself to be someone makeshift therapist and not a two way friendship, ya know? Just feel degrading, it’s nice to have someone to yap with where you both listen and both chat

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

!!!!!!! Yes! As someone who has a gift for understanding others and their cause to effects, i have learned to keep the energy for myself unless necessary now cause people just don’t consider things. And surprisingly, there is more narcissistic energy out in the world than people realize.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

I’ve realized the same! It’s really disheartening and gross. Like in even in people I’ve been friends with for a minute. Once they stop needing me, I’m like an old toy that gets left behind.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

And now I live for myself, explore for myself and experience things that I wanna experience for myself. It’s truly great to not have to ask for permission or talk things out with people before I do them. They are the same age as us they can figure it out. Just like how we’ve been figuring it out. With that being said, I definitely enjoy talking to people that understand that they are their own responsibility and I am my own responsibility.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Exactly! It took me years in therapy to realize that I can exist as a person and not as an extension of someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Dude I thought I was just in therapy for a decade. My mom reminded me I’ve been in therapy since I’ve been seven so that’s 16 years😭I am a final boss

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Final boss? Or girl boss? 😭 because I think you might be girl bossing with that record, I’ve been in therapy for 6 years

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

You may be right lolllll been girl bossing for too long😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

You got it! Jeep girl bossing!

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