Anonymous #1 11w

exactly ): i just feel wrong ugh. i think my toxic ass ex just got that in my head and you know what he walking talking to these two girls before i left saying it wasn’t anything and that he just missed the emotional connecting he had between him and i and he admitted trying to find it in other girls and claimed he wasn’t going to do anything physical like yeah sure bud

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Anonymous OP 11w

i understand:’) i got cheated on a few months ago and i still don’t see myself going on apps or talking to anyone anytime soon just bc i’m not the type of person to use them. But i also understand the guilt bc mentally it feels wrong to put my affection towards someone else even tho he had no problem💀

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Anonymous #1 11w

yeah i get it. he almost cheated on me but i guess he kinda did emotionally :/ ive resented him the last 5-6 months but he was narcissistic as hell and wouldn’t be surprised if he got physical with me. it was extremely hard to get out and it’s like ive been single for months. my friends called me a masochist bc i always go after guys who are the same and hurt me but with him, i woke up one day and realized i want completely different. it’s like a new person was born

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Anonymous #2 11w

thank you! that’s what i plan to do here in NY (: i don’t wanna see anyone irl and just wanna do some fun flirting. i really plan to go to therapy, work on my book and what i want. especially since im here in NY temporary i don’t plan on doing anything serious

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Anonymous #2 11w

damn how is that possible for some people💔💔 it’s been 7 months for me and i still cry ahout him all the time, i’ve made no progress emotionally.

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Anonymous OP 11w

i’m also in NY btw! upstate tho

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Anonymous #1 11w

omg wait me too that’s funny lol. i’m like 45- hour from the city. i get you though ): i’m sorry. i know that feeling, the feeling of someone gone. i felt like that the last year in my relationship. I don’t wanna say this, but I really wouldn’t have been surprised if my ex-boyfriend got more physically abusive with me. he would squeeze me if he was mad or put his hands in my face when i was eating bc he didn’t like the sounds of me eating (i didn’t even eat with my mouth open lmao)

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Anonymous #1 11w

I mean he was kind of objectifying me a lot so I felt cheap/he was only with me for my body. He never planned any dates or did anything that made me feel special and I felt like I had to beg to be treated how I felt like I should be treated and it always went through one ear and out the other. When I realized that he wasn’t going to change for me I knew I couldn’t stay. I did feel sad about it for a couple months after but that slowly stopped as I realized how to live on my own and choose myself

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Anonymous #2 11w

girl you’re literally me, i went through the same thing. they never change and get mad at us when we stop putting in effort like make it make sense. i’m so sorry ):

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Anonymous OP 11w

That or they think that being in such long term relationship means they can get comfortable but we are moving on from him and now I’m in a much better relationship so he’s old news

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