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Can someone pls explain to me why calling someone daddy is not weird
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Anonymous 1w

it’s so weird i can’t it makes me cringe

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Anonymous 1w

I saw somewhere some people see it as almost calling your partner sir? Like, you don’t visualize your dad, but instead someone who is protective and nurturing? Idk

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Anonymous 1w

From what I understand is it’s the power differential and the sense that you can completely trust your partner to take care of you just like how you would your actual dad. It can be weird but it also makes sense that people specifically often people who have trauma would like that power difference and sense of security

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Anonymous 1w

as someone who has this kink (due to trauma🤩) #4 & #5 r right on the money. it has nothing to do w an actual dad & more the dynamic of protection/security/safety it creates

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Anonymous 1w

weird is subjective and plenty of people get off on the weirdness/grossness

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Anonymous 1w

If you think about it long and hard it is but since it’s normalized people get used to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

So people just kind of ignore the weird part about it? I thought like there was some kind of rationale for how popular it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Like I literally can’t even understand why people think it’s hot

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Me too but I’m honestly just curious and wanna know why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

idk if just gives me the ick

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Ok but daddy is like exclusively what little kids call their dads ur telling me that’s the appeal for most people??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

she’s saying that it’s a fetish

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

had people try to argue me down about how “dada” is worse and more twisted than “daddy” when they equally play into and stem from an incest kink. let’s not forget the step sister category remains one of the largest 🌽 categories to date 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

But the weird part about it is the incest and pedophilia ur saying that’s what turns people on?? 😟😟

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

both

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

idk man i’m not really worrying about what consenting adults do in bed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

this is such a cope. calling someone daddy has inherent sexual undertones if it was solely about protection and safety daddy would be a nickname for everyone that fits that bill and not just men you’re being sexual with. you just called it a kink yourself 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

yes its a power dynamic & it very much is a kink/smth sexual i agree completely. im confused where we're getting lost. i was just saying it doesnt have to do w an actual father & is more based on the connotations of the word & dynamic that comes w it like safety/security/protection

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

yes. the dynamics between a father and a daughter. that can include safety and protection but it’s not what it’s rooted in. power, control and infantilization in a sexual context is what it’s rooted in. incest play is very very popular y’all are kinda trying to dilute the crooked desires of men and how it came about by sanitizing it like that. let’s just be real

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

idk girl. i dont think of my dad like that & i would never think of my dad like that. its nasty. & i feel like incest play is diff bc its actually like u want to view urselves as being related or whatever whereas this is solely abt the power dynamic. it would be fucking disgusting if it was my actual dad or if someone actually related to me was involved or if i was pretending that they were. i see what ur saying, but as someone who experiences it i just feel like its diff

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

as a woman you’re justifying it through much more complex means than it ever was from a man’s perspective. at the end of the day it’s all about infantilization. that’s why men perpetuate the idea that women expire at 25. that’s why servers put their hair in 2 pigtails when they want to make more tips. its not complex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Lots of men who like being called daddy or sir don’t actually think about their partners as a child. It is entirely about the power dynamics between the couple. You don’t understand the need for there to be a power difference in order to actually enjoy sex and that is a good thing. Yes some men like it because of the idea they are with someone who is much younger than them but that doesn’t mean everyone who enjoys it thinks that way.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

even tho i personally don’t like it let’s not shame ppl for it pls

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i dont think the ppl who espouse the views that women "expire" at 25 & infantilize women r necessarily going to have this kink. the reason they do that is just bc theyre misogynistic & unable to see women as equals🫤 they can sometimes go together but any two things can. this is a kink/relationship dynamic, not a worldview or belief system so when men who participate in this kink do so in the context of KINK, w a woman who is also consenting & wants to do so as well thats how its acceptable

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

im not in any way supporting, defending, or encouraging men who hold misogynistic beliefs abt women

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i think you’re confusing a kink with incest. they are two totally different things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

there are incest kinks. i don’t know what’s not clicking

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

this is not an incest kink… an incest kink would be wanting to have sex with your siblings. it is not the same as calling someone daddy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

first of all I said incest kinks exist because your comment suggested that they’re mutually exclusive when they’re not. second, incest has to do with anything familial it doesn’t have to be about siblings. you bitches are acting like I’m telling you what to do I’m just saying let’s be real about the origins. men will argue day and night about why they should be able to pursue 18 year olds sexually but suddenly it’s jarring that I said daddy is infantilization play? just stupid 😭😂😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

calling me a bitch is crazy gfys

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

arguing that calling your partner daddy is inherently an incest kink is saying like saying anyone who calls their partner sir has a medieval knight fetush

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

an incest kink does not have to do w "anything familial" i agree it can be between father/daughter, mother/son, brother/sister, or any variation of these it doesnt just have to be siblings but the very essence of an incest kink has to do w the forbidden nature of it (that nature being having sexual contact w a member of ur family). thats what makes it enticing to them & what creates the arousal/interest. this is in direct contrast to ppl who call their partner daddy bc they r NOT viewing them as

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

their own father & thats not what is enticing. its not the "forbidden" aspect, its the safety, security, and protection the power dynamic creates. this is why its not in any way an incest kink

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

I never said it just had to be siblings like are you confused? done going back and forth with you dumb hoes honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

girl did u actually read what i said I SAID I AGREE IT DOESNT JUST HAVE TO BE SIBLINGS😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

if you would open your eyes and read, dumb bitch, I said the daddy trope is about infantilization I just relayed it to the prevalence of incest play in my original comment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

oookay it seems we're going in circles now. i thought i already explained how men viewing women as unequal & infantilizing them is just pure misogyny it doesnt mean they have this kink but we're resorting to name-calling so im just gonna take my leave. its been fun yall✌️🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

good. bye hoe.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

ah yes because name calling is famously a tactic used by people who are right and have well founded arguments

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