
From what I understand is it’s the power differential and the sense that you can completely trust your partner to take care of you just like how you would your actual dad. It can be weird but it also makes sense that people specifically often people who have trauma would like that power difference and sense of security
yes its a power dynamic & it very much is a kink/smth sexual i agree completely. im confused where we're getting lost. i was just saying it doesnt have to do w an actual father & is more based on the connotations of the word & dynamic that comes w it like safety/security/protection
yes. the dynamics between a father and a daughter. that can include safety and protection but it’s not what it’s rooted in. power, control and infantilization in a sexual context is what it’s rooted in. incest play is very very popular y’all are kinda trying to dilute the crooked desires of men and how it came about by sanitizing it like that. let’s just be real
idk girl. i dont think of my dad like that & i would never think of my dad like that. its nasty. & i feel like incest play is diff bc its actually like u want to view urselves as being related or whatever whereas this is solely abt the power dynamic. it would be fucking disgusting if it was my actual dad or if someone actually related to me was involved or if i was pretending that they were. i see what ur saying, but as someone who experiences it i just feel like its diff
as a woman you’re justifying it through much more complex means than it ever was from a man’s perspective. at the end of the day it’s all about infantilization. that’s why men perpetuate the idea that women expire at 25. that’s why servers put their hair in 2 pigtails when they want to make more tips. its not complex.
Lots of men who like being called daddy or sir don’t actually think about their partners as a child. It is entirely about the power dynamics between the couple. You don’t understand the need for there to be a power difference in order to actually enjoy sex and that is a good thing. Yes some men like it because of the idea they are with someone who is much younger than them but that doesn’t mean everyone who enjoys it thinks that way.
i dont think the ppl who espouse the views that women "expire" at 25 & infantilize women r necessarily going to have this kink. the reason they do that is just bc theyre misogynistic & unable to see women as equals🫤 they can sometimes go together but any two things can. this is a kink/relationship dynamic, not a worldview or belief system so when men who participate in this kink do so in the context of KINK, w a woman who is also consenting & wants to do so as well thats how its acceptable
first of all I said incest kinks exist because your comment suggested that they’re mutually exclusive when they’re not. second, incest has to do with anything familial it doesn’t have to be about siblings. you bitches are acting like I’m telling you what to do I’m just saying let’s be real about the origins. men will argue day and night about why they should be able to pursue 18 year olds sexually but suddenly it’s jarring that I said daddy is infantilization play? just stupid 😭😂😭
an incest kink does not have to do w "anything familial" i agree it can be between father/daughter, mother/son, brother/sister, or any variation of these it doesnt just have to be siblings but the very essence of an incest kink has to do w the forbidden nature of it (that nature being having sexual contact w a member of ur family). thats what makes it enticing to them & what creates the arousal/interest. this is in direct contrast to ppl who call their partner daddy bc they r NOT viewing them as