
I didn’t know it was not common for guys to make sure a woman is comfortable and enjoying sex throughout until I talked to more women and having sex with women who have had sex before me. Like me just asking in sex if I’m hurting you or not etc is something I didn’t know women found attractive I thought I was just overthinking it bc of my lack of experience. Oh and also on top of that eating pussy is also not like a garuntee? Like going down at the beginning is like the thesis to my essay 😭
And also I don’t get how other guys can enjoy sex if they are just doing it for themselves, like how is your task just to get your rocks off and not actually please the woman and making sure you both have a great time so you can do it again. Why just hop around a bunch of different girls, bang them once and then leaving them with a bad experience? Atleast how I view it is if you wanna have sex then put on a good performance and make her feel good so she will want more and not just blow you off