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Girl Talk 16w

Maybe I’m just immature but I will never understand hookup culture or dating just to date

Anonymous 16w

Hookups I get, but committing myself emotionally to someone I don’t plan to spend an indefinite amount of time with is beyond me. Just get a fuck buddy or friend atp

Anonymous 16w

well dating can be enjoyable just to spend time with someone you enjoy even if you’re not certain if there’s a future with them. it’s valuing the journey not just the destination

Anonymous 16w

i just date to date and i don’t date to marry because i don’t see myself marrying the first person i date and i was correct on that. however, if i date someone for long enough and i want to get married to them i’ll have that conversation but i’m also 23 and don’t want to be married until i’m 30 and i don’t want to be engaged until i’m at least 27-28.

Anonymous 16w

I only do hookups because I can’t find someone long term and so I’m unfortunately settling for what temporary “affection” I can get

Anonymous 16w

That’s not an immature take

Anonymous 16w

to each their own

Anonymous

#3 16w

so honestly it really depends on the person and who you talk to about this.

Anonymous

#3 16w

but i’m dating a girl now and if all goes well i would marry her. sorry for the rant but this is just my perspective 😭

Anonymous

#3 16w

I think this is fair, but I think I’d only date someone if I saw a potential future with them

Anonymous

OP 16w

and that’s fine! everyone is different

Anonymous

#6 16w

this. this. this. i date people and enjoy the journey with them even if that means i won’t get married to them.

Anonymous

#6 16w

yes! if i enjoy someone’s company and know we’re good together then why not make the present great