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The push-pull method does not work with me anymore. Before when men pulled away, I would get clingy and sad about why they’re acting differently. Now it just pisses me off and I get completely detached.
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Anonymous 14w

So it still affects you, you’re just bracing now. Also that’s not push-pull, he’s just out

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Anonymous 14w

Like I might keep talking to him but I’ve also pulled away. So don’t expect the same upbeat responses as before

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Anonymous 14w

Gotta find someone to match your energy. Bc you deserve it ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

I didn’t say it didn’t affect me. And what makes it not push pull? His behavior seems pretty textbook to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Where’s that textbook from. Push pull implies he’s still interested, and creates a fun dynamic

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Well no. There’s 2 times of push pull and h the other is a manipulation tactic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Then I suppose you’ve ascended past it all. Congrats to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

You’re just assuming he isn’t interested anymore, when push pull is single handily the most used tactic when it comes to varieties of talking stages😭 U sound like either an idiot guy, or a girl that’s butt hurt over a guy that didn’t pull and just pushed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Youre making a few assumptions yourself there too. We don’t know much past the repeated one sided feelings. Shes jaded to it now. And this isnt push pull lmfao, im sorry to say you guys have been sold a dream multiple times

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Why even say this

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

From personal experience push and pull makes men go crazy. “One sided feelings” yet the whole concept is giving attention and then taking it so obv the feelings are reciprocated to an extent. I’m genuinely sorry u are so hurt that u feel the need to tell this girl he doesn’t like her. Thankfully ur words mean nothing.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Ur fearful avoidant

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w

Love the assumptions being made in this thread like everyone knows the whole story

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

It’s an interpolation from everything you said, ur anxious but have avoidant tendencies too. You just can’t accept it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

lol

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