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trying to navigate dating as an autistic girl is so hard. guys dont show interest so ppl tell me to approach, i do and they tell me guys dont like that. i try to be friends and they ignore me. i try to flirt, get rejected. try dating apps, crickets.
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Anonymous 3w

why does it seem like guys hate me? i’m trying my hardest and it just isn’t working. i’ve literally never had a romantic interaction with a guy

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Anonymous 3w

girl as someone w/ possible autism & def. adhd & anxiety you have to find a man that’s also ND he’ll get it. my bf is also ND and it makes things Soooo much easier for me

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Anonymous 3w

not to be rude but im curious what you look like if ur not getting ANY male attention

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m not diagnosed autistic but I highly suspect I am, I am neurodivergent though and I feel this hard. This is how life was for me for FOREVER.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

ngl this hurts. i’m not ugly but even if i was, all types of people find love.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

not what im trying to say, i just mean men will fuck anything with a heartbeat so i’m shocked really

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

yeah i know which makes me feel even worse about myself. men will give anything attention but me😞

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I feel like you might be subconsciously being offputting. I have always been uhly but I intentionally started being off putting (I don’t want male validation) and now I neverrr get attention from men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

bro can you just stop. you’re making this so much worse

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