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Call me a stuck up bitch I do not care but I have a doctorate, no, I’m not dating someone with a high school diploma. If men can have all these requirements that is mine
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Anonymous 15w

wanting someone w an education is fine

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Anonymous 15w

i’m similar. i don’t necessarily want someone with a degree, i just want someone who has a plan for their future and knows how to engage critically and intelligently with the world

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Anonymous 15w

Nah not stuck up. It’s ok to have standards. And choosing not to date someone doesn’t even mean you think they’re a bad person it’s just someone YOU don’t wanna date

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Anonymous 15w

I get it, 1000%

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Anonymous 15w

It’s soooo sexy when people have future plans for life and ambitions, I cannot STAND people with absolutely no drive or purpose

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

post high school

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

I’ve been on so many dates with men who say they do one thing and then we get to talking and I find out they actually have zero plans post high school and it’s so frustrating. I feel like that makes me sound like a bitch idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

Exactly! Some of my friends have said things like well Good luck finding a man… why is having a man I don’t like something of value, like I’m not lowering my standards just to be able to tell someone I have a man

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

you know i was gonna say stuff but ill just tell you about my boyfriend. when i met him he was very driven. in personal training school i loved it. well some time he just changed his mind. mind you, his seasonal job (which he still works at today) is only 4 months out of the year, so that pisses me off. he’s not in college, works full time because he’s allowed to work crazy hours, but doesn’t get benefits, has barely any room for growth, NO IDEA what he wants to do with himself at age 22

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

and this is fine, for someone who also doesn’t know what they want to do. i’m 20 years old getting my bachelors. i have post grad plans of moving and graduating and traveling with my job and fulfilling life for myself BY myself. it’s okay for me to want someone who has aspirations. doesn’t have to be college could be a trade degree or something but SOMETHING better than a fucking high school diploma

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

now it’s like well what the fuck does our future even look like because he has no dreams to work or want to work in anything at all??? i want to love my job and i love my major and work field. it’s okay for us to have the standards of education especially since you have a doctorates like wow good job!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

Literally like the guy I’m dating now I have to be honest physically he is not my type, but he is the smartest man I’ve probably ever met and he makes great money and I’m obsessed with this personality and I’m literally in love with him. It just makes life so much easier like I started wearing dresses and skirts again and looking cute 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

like there’s nothing worse than talking to a man who like works as a cashier at petsmart and if you ask him an opinion about anything he says “idk haha it depends” like ohh my god

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

I love that so much for you

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