you know i was gonna say stuff but ill just tell you about my boyfriend. when i met him he was very driven. in personal training school i loved it. well some time he just changed his mind. mind you, his seasonal job (which he still works at today) is only 4 months out of the year, so that pisses me off. he’s not in college, works full time because he’s allowed to work crazy hours, but doesn’t get benefits, has barely any room for growth, NO IDEA what he wants to do with himself at age 22
and this is fine, for someone who also doesn’t know what they want to do. i’m 20 years old getting my bachelors. i have post grad plans of moving and graduating and traveling with my job and fulfilling life for myself BY myself. it’s okay for me to want someone who has aspirations. doesn’t have to be college could be a trade degree or something but SOMETHING better than a fucking high school diploma
now it’s like well what the fuck does our future even look like because he has no dreams to work or want to work in anything at all??? i want to love my job and i love my major and work field. it’s okay for us to have the standards of education especially since you have a doctorates like wow good job!
Literally like the guy I’m dating now I have to be honest physically he is not my type, but he is the smartest man I’ve probably ever met and he makes great money and I’m obsessed with this personality and I’m literally in love with him. It just makes life so much easier like I started wearing dresses and skirts again and looking cute 😂