Girl Talk on Yik Yak | is it normal to consider breaking up with ur s/o every week or so? like 4 out of 7 days are good & lovey dovey but you feel miserable & wanna break up with them for the rest of the week. also we have a healthy relationship like it isn’t toxic/abusive

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Girl Talk 11w

is it normal to consider breaking up with ur s/o every week or so? like 4 out of 7 days are good & lovey dovey but you feel miserable & wanna break up with them for the rest of the week. also we have a healthy relationship like it isn’t toxic/abusive

#poll

it’s “normal”

it’s not normal/break up atp

35 votes

Anonymous 11w

You can have a “good” relationship and it still not be what you want in a person. If the relationship isn’t working for you for whatever reason, it’s okay to breakup. He doesn’t have to be an asshole.

Anonymous 11w

girl this sounds so incredibly exhausting 😭 having the thought to want to breakup even twice is enough to know u need to do it. good days don't makeup for that many bad days. just bc it's not abusive doesn't mean u don't have valid reasons to want to breakup, hell u don't even need a reason to breakup, if u don't feel it's right then u owe it to urself and ur partner to breakup

Anonymous 11w

For how long has this been happening? What makes you feel miserable the other days?

Anonymous

#1 11w

for the past 3 months or so (we’ve been dating for 4 months). and i get miserable bc i overthink a lot and whenever i talk about my feelings i feel guilty, not bc of my s/o (she always validates my feelings), but bc i feel like i take up too much room in the relationship and it prevents her from expressing when she’s upset. i just feel like she deserves better than me. but overall it’s a healthy relationship i just hate how i feel with her sometimes but it’s just in my head