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My predicament is that right now at 23 I 100% do not want kids and don’t see myself ever wanting kids HOWEVER I change so much year to year who knows what I’ll want at like 30? I want to find a man who also doesn’t want kids BUT what if I change my mind?
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Anonymous 1w

This is such a stupid thing to stress over I need to go to sleep

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Anonymous 1w

What if I finally find a guy who doesn’t want kids and we fall in love and spend years together and suddenly I’m 30 and settled down and want kids but he still doesn’t want kids? What am I supposed to do then? It’s a small possibility but I can’t predict how I’ll feel in the future

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Anonymous 1w

i know i don’t want them bc whenever i change my mind it only goes to “maybe i want them” and never a 100% and if it’s a maybe then most likely o actually still don’t want them

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Anonymous 1w

i feel you …. i change my opinions so much i can’t ever be sure that my stance on kids will stay the same. best advice i can give is to just be up front about it w your partner

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

not stupid at all i stress all the time

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