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if you experienced sa/rape/violation ? how do you cope and move forward?
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Anonymous 8w

Recently unpacking it. But my therapist said these things can help 1) journaling 2) writing about it and burning it 3) not calling it an “incident” and straight up saying what it is and who did it 4) grounding when having flashbacks or a ptsd episode 5) yoga and meditation 6) when doing intimate things saying aloud “x is not here” or “no one who I don’t want to be here isn’t here.” And stopping immediately when having negative reactions

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Anonymous 8w

Do not pull yourself into hypersexualization. It damaged me far worse and made me question a lot about myself and let to the biggest guilt I’ve ever had. Talk to people about it. Don’t suppress. Talk to a therapist. Be open and know it’s nothing you did.

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Anonymous replying to -> raggoon 8w

do i report to the police? like im confused

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I can’t advise on it. I can’t bc mine is like he said she said

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Anonymous replying to -> raggoon 8w

Like in the sense that it happened w an ex boyfriend of mine while we were in a relationship w eachother and there’s zero evidence

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