Personally I don’t think taking charge of your sexuality is you posting OF. Like there’s so many other ways to take charge of your sexuality. “Some girls do it because they were assaulted” and that’s when you get a therapist not an OF account. I’m going through therapy rn for it and never once has my therapist said sexualizing myself was a healthy thing to do
A lot of it does, some of it doesn’t. Unfortunately, the stuff that does is what’s prioritized by the industry and gets the most attention Generally the kinds of pornographic content that can be sexual liberty is pretty different from the kind you’re describing. Part of the problem is that men already see us as objects, and so they more often watch the porn that reinforced that view, there’s a reason that it’s only porn catered to men that is presented that way
I’m a sex worker (not of) and it is kinda disheartening to see so many young girls fall into that trap. If you want to do sex work there are really cool jobs you can have (I work at a dungeon! It’s sick as fuck!) it OF is not one of them. Ethical pornography is kinda cool though. I have a friend who owns a studio that shows the entire process from convent checks to aftercare and it’s kinda a baller way to see a healthy kink relationship play out. Just my 2 cents!
I’ve been struggling to break free from it for a while. But I started reading smut at 11 and found porn around 12 or 13 so I’ve been pretty stuck in it for a long time now. Hard to quit once you’ve done it for so long. The longest I’ve quit for was a year. I’m really happy you’re making progress though!
Yeah, like, maybe if they’re already a social media star with tens of millions of followers who find them attractive but like most creators on these online platforms it’s a very small amount that make real money, but the sacrifice is much bigger when making OnlyFans than being a small Twitch streamer or something
I mean, some of them have sex with attractive men who are closer to their age for a living or are couples that film sex with each other or mostly just masturbate or whatever, but it’s harder to make money doing that and making sex even with your partner a job sounds depressing, I’m sure it could be fun for a bit but…
(So just for context, I was on porn for 4 years before I started trying to get off of it). When I first tried to get off of it, I rebounded crazy hard on smut and would read for 5-8 hours a day of smut. And I realized that it was just mind porn for me. So when I cut out the smut too, everything became so much harder. Maybe folks can be on smut and not porn, but I don’t think I personally can stop myself from binging smut if I start reading it while I’m off porn. I just won’t be able to stop.
Yea what makes people want to watch porn is when they are virgins and don’t understand what sex is like and think porn gives them a better idea of it but porn just isn’t the answer. And it’s ok to want to know how sex works before you are in a relationship I totally get that but I just think there are other options than just porn. But I’m happy that you got over it and you’re not the only one who struggled with porn watch it’s a normal struggle people encounter especially as virgins.
As someone who is hypersexual myself, it is dangerous lol. I have to constantly be careful with what I do. On a side note however, one of my ex girlfriends, was a onlyfans girl and attempted pornstar. She was forced to do it not because she wanted to, but because she felt like it was the only thing she could do to make what little money she could, so she could help contribute to her family’s income. (Her parents both worked 3 jobs each, and could still barely afford a mobile home 😭)
Yeah I hopped on porn cause I was reading smut and was like “what are they even talking about?” Like I never saw anyone naked so I had no idea what the books were describing. So I found a porn website to do research and slowly got hooked because it provided intimacy that I didn’t have in my life.
Yeah when I was new to porn, I thought teen meant underage so I avoided that trash like the PLAGUE. But now that I’m older, I realize they wouldn’t be able to legally post it unless both parties were 18+. So “teen” just means 18 and 19 I think. But that barely legal tag is horrendous
That’s a lie bc a girl at my school (in high school) got her nudes and sex tape leaked and it was under that tag for almost a year before it got taken down and she was 15 (on twitter at least) idk about pornhub I don’t watch porn but all I know is shit slides way too much on twitter.