Anonymous #4 16h

i will def do that, but he said the dildo i have is too big so we need to buy a special one for him :)

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Anonymous #3 16h

i will say that communication is one of our strengths as a couple, and the issue here is something i think i need to figure out internally

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Anonymous #1 16h

mainly his job and his academics and social life

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Anonymous OP 16h

he is very busy with work so i feel neglected but he isn't doing anything wrong, i think i'm just jealous that he is being successful

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Anonymous OP 16h

and for academics, i guess i'm jealous that his classes are so easy compared to mine (he is a business major and i'm a math major)

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Anonymous #5 16h

i guess the overall thing is that i'm jealous of how fulfilled he is right now with his work because it makes me feel like he values his career more than he values me

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Anonymous OP 16h

like he would be fine without me

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Anonymous #2 16h

also, he is in a choir that i auditioned for but got rejected from, so now i'm in the less good choir and i get frustrated. and i think that if i reauditioned i could get into his group but he said that he prefers we be in different groups

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Anonymous OP 16h

I get that. I think letting him know you’re struggling with these feelings is okay, and journaling, talking with friends, focusing on your own goals and less on comparison can all help.

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Anonymous OP 16h

and to make it worse, he is fulfilled by a career that i dont understand at all, in the sports industry. so it feels like we have little to nothing in common now

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