Girl Talk on Yik Yak | girls... i need advice. i just realized i'm holding a lot of resentment for my sweet boyfriend. i love him a lot but i am also jealous of some things he has and i subconsciously hold it against him. what should i do to make this better?

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Girl Talk 22w

girls... i need advice. i just realized i'm holding a lot of resentment for my sweet boyfriend. i love him a lot but i am also jealous of some things he has and i subconsciously hold it against him. what should i do to make this better?

Anonymous 22w

What things?

Anonymous 22w

Maybe communicate?

Anonymous 22w

give him backshots

Anonymous 22w

maybe try and redirect the jealousy if you can? like instead of being upset if he has something you don’t, it can be “(whatever thing) is so nice and I’m happy he has it, I would love to have one for myself in the future too”

Anonymous

#4 22w

i will def do that, but he said the dildo i have is too big so we need to buy a special one for him :)

Anonymous

#3 22w

i will say that communication is one of our strengths as a couple, and the issue here is something i think i need to figure out internally

Anonymous

#5 22w

i guess the overall thing is that i'm jealous of how fulfilled he is right now with his work because it makes me feel like he values his career more than he values me

Anonymous

OP 22w

like he would be fine without me

Anonymous

#2 22w

also, he is in a choir that i auditioned for but got rejected from, so now i'm in the less good choir and i get frustrated. and i think that if i reauditioned i could get into his group but he said that he prefers we be in different groups

Anonymous

OP 22w

and to make it worse, he is fulfilled by a career that i dont understand at all, in the sports industry. so it feels like we have little to nothing in common now