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Would y’all boo me if I said that a dealbreaker in friendship for me is people who alway find themselves in toxic relationships/situationships or kinda make dumb decisions romance/sex wise 👀
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Anonymous 6d

no cause i agree. my roommates both have such toxic dating habits it’s actually gross. and they don’t take care of their sexual health in those relationships either

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Anonymous 6d

No cuz it’s annoying. They put themselves in these obviously terrible situations and then while about it later

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Anonymous 6d

It’s such a red flag because if you can’t even care about yourself, how are you meant to care about me as a friend and give me good advice?

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Anonymous 6d

Not a dealbreaker, that’s why I stopped being friends with a girl bc this was her with every relationship every couple months

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Anonymous 6d

It’s so sad because they seem so full of life and happiness. Gonna have to let one of my friends go for this reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

And then when you help them they get mad or feel like you think you’re better then them 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

LITERALLY. Like no, I don’t think I’m better than you, I just make better decisions

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Exactly! Like at a certain point making bad decisions in your love life takes a mental and physical toll on you. The happiest ppl I know in my personal life are either women who are single and not male centered or gay women/men 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

FACTS

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

My thing is how tf are they happy??? Like? You’re surrounded by horrible people with no concern for yourself. That’s a disaster

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

The sexual health gets too, so many people don’t get tested, make sure their partners get tested, or take any precautions over their sexual health. They’re like “I had sex raw am I gonna get pregnant?” Like huh ???😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

EXACTLY LIKE YOU DID WHAT? IN THIS SOCIETY? WITH WHO?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Saw someone saying online that condoms were “not the vibes”. Like why are we talking down on safe sex like I hate it here 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

girlll lemme tell you. my roommate doesn’t take any form of contraception. her mom found her pregnancy test in the trash so she has her taking the pill so she’ll pick them up at the pharmacy but she never takes them she just pops plan b everytime. and im sure her bf doesn’t wear a condom. she had me go into her room to take a picture of it to send to her mom

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

I mean full of happiness prior to entering the relationship lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

I really struggle to feel bad for people like this. And these are the same people who will come on to places about this and complain about it! And then when you tell them, “hey, let’s make smarter decisions when it comes to are sexual health as adults, they get pissy”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Like it’s so crazy to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

mind you she was in a toxic relationship with her ex for 4 years then 2 days later ends up hooking up with his best friend and has a pregnancy scare. like girl please heal first before jumping in

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Ugh this is irritating me so much and she’s not even my roommate😭 how do you deal

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

i can talk so much about her. we live in the same town but she’s always at her bf’s house which is 30 min away from our campus but she’s always driving to him and spending the night there when campus housing ain’t cheap and it’s her first and only year living on campus cause she’s a senior like me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Damn but tbh it would be nice having the house to yourself bc imagine if she was bringing her boyfriends back

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

oh she does. when she comes back, she’ll literally spend like maybe five hours without him just to invite him over to our apartment and she’ll let me know like 30 minutes before he’s about to arrive 🙂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Better than my roommate was, she just had him over 24/7 without saying anything. Like he literally lived at our place instead of his own that he was paying for it was absurd

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

yuck i hate that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

It always feel horrible saying that because it feels like I’m victim blaming but truly, sometimes people like this cannot be saved and do it to themselves. When you reject every resource and helping hand you’re given it gets to a point where it’s completely on you

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