if someone initiates a date w me i expect him to pay for said date. i’m willing to split w my boyfriend though

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i’d probably go 50/50 but would be nice if he paid for the first date

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I’m a solid 50/50 but if he offers it’s fine. I’ll offer to get dessert elsewhere. Or do a whoever chooses and plans pays. Made it to where we could both be in our personal budgets. May be an issue if one person spends more or plans more but that just requires conversation

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We usually trade off paying unless it’s birthdays or anniversaries

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