
mama it’s a charger i understand it is frustrating but if you’re going to eventually see her again just use a new one for now she obviously didn’t maliciously take it. if you really want it back just text back and say “hi just wondering if you ever found my charger and if there was a time i could swing by and grab it” i feel like there’s no need to start a “fight” over something so small in the grand scheme of things
Wait a minute it’s been two weeks and she hasn’t even located the charger in her packed stuff yet? ATP is text something along the lines of “I understand that’s it’s been a hectic couple weeks for you and that you not having a car limits the options to have my charger returned but it has been two weeks of me asking for it back and I’m starting to lose my patience.” Then add your availability to pick it up.
I get in this scenario that it is just a charger, it’s just that I was raised to believe that if someone did care, they would have more of a sense of urgency to finding the item than the ex roommate is showing. I completely understand if the past two weeks has been stressful for her, but at the same time OP has been waiting patiently for two weeks. I was just taught that you have to be a little more firm when asking for something when it’s been this long.