
I’m waiting for marriage actually 😋 but I don’t think I’m better than anyone who doesn’t as long as they’re safe, consenting, and informed! And that whole worn out thing is a myth <3 the vagina is like a muscle, it doesn’t get “looser” from having sex with other men but builds up a tolerance to stretching, which is why the first time is often painful !! https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/loose-vagina
I mean objectively yeah it’s gross, but gross ≠ bad or unenjoyable. Also I do want sex but I require a deeper connection first, which is why I prefer to wait until marriage/someone I could see myself marrying. Trauma also plays a large role in why sex isn’t as enjoyable for me w/o a connection ^^
Right right because sexual trauma is only limited to consenting adults and could not happen to minors or in instances of rape. It’s weird your immediate assumption of hearing someone has trauma related to sex is to assume they must’ve had a bad consensual experience despite, what’s the statistic, 1 in 5 women experiencing some form of sexual assault?
Also note I never said sexual trauma, all I said was trauma plays apart in my needs. For all you know I could’ve simply been groomed, harassed, raised to believe sex would send me to hell leaving me with life long struggles with it, seen/known other people be assaulted and have an affected view on it, or simply bad experiences with men that had nothing to do with sex.
I’m lucky enough to be okay talking about it because I have found this entirely encounter surreal in a comedic way like yeah, coming off very very reasonable here. Also hopefully some other loser slut shamers will see the kinds people who agree with them and think about their views 😭
ew. “worn out?” 💀 you’re gross. human purity culture is disgusting. women are not worth less if they’ve had sex before. neither are men. let ppl fucking exist. when u have sex as a woman ur body goes right back to how it was before within a few hours. literally changes nothing. society is lying to you and you’re falling for it. source: biology and psychology studies.