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I feel so behind bc I’m 19 and have never had a bf. Also i feel like something is wrong with me bc guys only want to be sexual with me but get in a relationship with another girl 🥲
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Anonymous 1d

guys are completely unaware of what they want lol do not sweat it. be authentic and avoid comparing yourself to other girls like you’re in a race for brownie points. i’ve been there!! but honoring that person i’ve always wanted to be friends with that lives in me is what helped me get a celebrity as a fwb and eventually found the love of my life after that 🥰

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Anonymous 1d

nothing is wrong with you!

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Anonymous 1d

Nothing wrong with you! You are very young and have SO much ahead of you!! Don’t dim your shine for someone who doesn’t want to see how bright you can be.

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Anonymous 1d

I won’t gloss it. If you feel smth is wrong then change it. If you don’t like smth abt yourself go and look in the mirror. Talk to yourself. Find what it is. And set out to fix it. Don’t be self pitiful. Be proactively responsible and better yourself more than yesterday and yes it will work. Gym. Clothes. Hair. Idk make up. A new hobby. More extroverted. More mysterious. Less accommodating. Idk sort it out

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Anonymous 1d

My first advice is to make some friends with guys who you know aren’t interested in you, then ask them for advice or ask what they think of a specific guy you like after they meet them, it’s weird but I’ve had my bf explain it to me like this: guys are completely oblivious to girl’s intentions most of the time, but they can subconsciously be very observant on how another guy feels or their intentions when it comes to girls (basically ask “would you trust [name] with your sister?”).

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

It feels like that tho 😭 guys only ever message me to have sex but never want to get into a relationship with me but will for another girl :/

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Also, going for the big dopey smiley ones never hurts, you gotta love those human Golden Retrievers 💛 (Taze their balls if they try you tho)

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